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I was admitted by a university in Malaysia first, I started my student visa process at that time, after a few time I was admitted by METU. I think METU is better. So I want to go to METU(bachelor). I send all of the expected expense of METU to my mom. Then she said I can only go to Malaysia. I calculated, I need to spend 13500 USD per year in Malaysia. And 10500 USD per year in Turkey. Besides, I am a major in science, and after my research, METU is better than Malaysia( I like theory more, and I want to start to read phD directly after bachelor).

I think objectively, the only thing Malaysia better is closer to home, but if we think deeper, we can use the money that the Turkey cheaper than Malaysia to cover the cost of plane ticket the Turkey expensiver than Malaysia.
And another reason I think my mom may think is I have already paid the money of the visa process of Malaysia. But even though Turkey is cheaper.

I think my mom can not think deeply and reasonably, also her mood state is unstable, so it is so suffering to communicate with my mom, and always make me unhappy. And this problem have bad impact on my study efficiency.

What should I do guys?

Thanks very much for any advice, I am considering which school is better, it is very important for me.🥺

I mean both the government scholarship and school scholarship is OK.

Thanks very much my friends, it’s important to me 😊

Does any body know what is the real cost per year(account in USD) and the the pros and cons of METU in different aspects? I did some research by myself but I want to hear other people‘s view. Thanks very much!