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never growing up or maturing

never growing up or maturing

Hello, hope some of you can feel validated or somewhat comforted after hearing my experience.

College has made me realize i need to grow tf up. I feel like a kid in an adult body that never grows, I’m so immature sometimes it genuinely bothers me. What even is ‘mature’? Is everyone just pretending or is there actually a ‘responsible grown adult’ out there? I feel like such an imposter in my friend groups, they dress way mature, wear makeup and act like how a 18 year old should act but when it comes to me I feel like a geek sia.. I still collect tcg and toys which is totally fine but sometimes it’s embarrassing to say out loud because I’ve been judge because of it.. honestly I’ve been sheltered my whole life, my parents never let me do anything despite me being the ‘behave’ siblings, while my sister gets to do whatever she wants even though she’s a ‘problem’ child. I feel like more of the discipline should go towards her but instead I get all the shots. I’m so tired because I’ve been nothing but behaved (I think) I get good grades, I don’t skip class and all those stuff but somehow they still don’t trust me when it comes to making my own decision. Ik it’s a dangerous world out there yadayada but I feel like part of growing up is experiencing something that is out of your comfort zone to help you grow and mature. They don’t even let me drive without their supervision even though I had my driver license for 6 months now and I never gotten into an accident. I can’t even dye my hair.. not even brown, they’re not even conservative so this is just them.. Im not trying to say these are the cause of my problems since I’m generally someone that doesn’t like going out or be socially active but at the end of the day im still a person who wants to have fun. Tbf they have nothing to worry about because my idea of fun inst even going to clubs or party but instead late night drive with friends at a forest/cabin? Idk that’s been in my bucket list since forever but ik I will never get to experience that. The conclusion of this story? Idk just venting and feeling like an outcast for not looking ‘mature’ or have my own life experience. Don’t even get me started on love life.. doesn’t even exist in my book. Istg I still look like the picture above. 👆 ik it’s not a big deal but hey my feelings are valid :) ty

u/eeveegnome — 21 hours ago

Im considering dropping out and continue to work because I couldn't get any scholarship

Hi there, as the title written, for context, im 23 years old and have 3 semesters left, i've been studying and covering expenses all on my own for the past 2 semester and now all of my scholarship applications have been rejected, im in dilemma whether i should continue to finish of my degree or drop out and continue working and pursue degree part-time later on if needed.

  1. I used to work before continuing degree so i actually have 1-1.5 years of working experience, specifically as a soft dev. So i think this could be a great boost for me but at the same time that was back in 2024, im not sure if my experience could be relevant still if i were to go back to job hunting.

  2. Continuing study has been exhausting for me, its been studying, finishing assignments and part time work as shopee warehouse assistant/drive as grab during my free time. The money im making is just barely sufficient to pay my expenses for my rent/utilities/car and daily spendings. I tried to explore more into university programs/competitions and hackathons so i dont waste my university life experience but its been going pretty hard for me to balance it out all so i had to pass out on some. I did consider for PTPTN but i already applied for PTPTN back then for my diploma and applying again for my degree, i feel like i dont want to put myself in a lot of debts after study.

What would you do if you were in my position? No financial support from anyone, just you on your own. Is there something that i could try to make my situation easier so i can finish my degree? or should i just drop out and work considering i already have some experience and building my working experience could be better?

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u/indominustyrant — 21 hours ago
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Answer a Survey & Get a Chance to Win RM50! 💸👀

Hi everyone!!!

I’m conducting my MLIS research and I need women aged 18–60 who live in Klang Valley to complete my survey.

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Just complete the survey and post a screenshot of the finish page in the comments so you can be entered into the lucky draw.

I'll dm the winner after. Dont worry I wont collect any private information, this survey is anonymous.

If you’re not eligible, please consider tagging/sharing this with someone who is. Or you can even ask your sister,auntie or mother to answerr🙏

You get a chance at RM50.
I get survey responses.
My thesis gets to live another day.

A win-win situation, really. 🤝😭
Thank you, Reddit. You’re my last hope. 🫡💗

u/Little-Maybe5298 — 1 day ago

UM MAYA acceptance/payment issue, please help

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Hi everyone, I’m an international student who received an offer for a Master’s at Universiti Malaya.

I accepted my offer through the MAYA portal on 16 August and reached Step 4 of 8, but I had not yet paid the admission fee or the international student processing fee.

Now when I go back to the Accept Admission Offer section, it says “There are no documents found.” My Fees & Payments section also shows RM 0.00 and there is no invoice/payment option available.

Has anyone experienced this with UM MAYA? Am I supposed to be able to continue the acceptance process and pay the admission fee from the portal, or does UM need to reset/enable something on my account?

I’ve already submitted a UM Helpdesk ticket, but I’d really appreciate it if anyone who recently went through the international postgraduate acceptance process could tell me what happened in their case.

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u/Computer_Sci2123 — 23 hours ago

Should I Give Law a Try?

i got an offer to pursue a degree in law. honestly, i’m not very confident in my eng, even tho i got Band 4 in MUET. i don’t think i’m good at arguing or expressing my points, and i don’t have any background in law either. but i do love reading, and i’m genuinely interested in the field. should i give it a try? what should I do to prepare myself? or should i just switch to a diff course after sem 2??? plsss helppp

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u/iwantburgerpls — 22 hours ago

Is a degree needed for a better job in the future?

Ive always wondered whether having a degree secures me a better job in the future, whereas to just working to earn money and progressing in the profession. What do you guys think about it? Is having a degree compulsory?

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u/Zealousideal-Land100 — 21 hours ago

Joining sunway university in a month

Im an international student looking for accommodation near sunway university, preferably walking distance.
Im female,
Muslim
1500 RM budget
Need a CLEANNN room
Looking for a room with a private bathroom
Does anyone have any leads on safe spaces i could rent, and what are the best places to be looking for rooms?
Ive been searching on facebook groups and lots of websites online, the places i find are either too far from sunway university, too expensive or just in really bad conditions. Pls help a girl out!!

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u/Easy_Truth_3560 — 1 day ago
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how frequent is the water disruption in ums?

hi! im planning on applying to ums for upu rayuan but ive just been notified by my dad to find alternatives as his friend informed him the water disruption got worse there.

any seniors/current students can give insight on this? thanks in advance!

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u/ConnectionFree1021 — 1 day ago

trapped in kl😭

me and my parents came for my uni application to get student visa. it was originally an one day trip where i would return to my country, we ended up being told that because my student visa will take time to approve i am unable to leave malaysia and my course starts in September. my parents have a flight back today night and i had to get a last minute stay at a hotel. (i got 2 dollars and a chill gum 😭 to my name).

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u/weirdboy321 — 2 days ago

Co authorship as undergraduate students

Asking if anyone had been published articles/papers during their Y1-Y4 years, not including FYP,

I mean personally seek out institute or research labs around unis or other unis and assist the Drs to conduct experiments plus doing internship for better CV

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u/Beneficial-Belt4681 — 1 day ago
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Cost of living near UKM

Hey guys, I was researching about the cost of living here in KL specifically near UKM but found very conflicting info. Going off what I found , 700rm/month for studio apartment, 400 for food plus 400 more for misc (recreation, gym, social)... come to about 1500 - 1600 rm/month. For those who live there, is this realistic or way too low?

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u/SaaS-guy-the-first — 1 day ago

Exposure to War-Related Content on Social Media and Emotional and Action Responses Among Malaysian Youth

(Helping a friend out 🙂‍↕️)

Hi everyone! 💫

My name is Nurul Zakiah binti Mohd Yazid, a final-year student, and I am currently conducting my FYP research on War-related Content on Social Media and Its Influence on Malaysian Youth.

If you are a *Malaysian aged 18–30, I would really appreciate your participation in my questionnaire. The questionnaire takes approximately 15–30 minutes to complete, so please set aside enough time to answer the questions thoughtfully.

📋 Questionnaire:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf-KmRsqeRjfd8rxSdf0KFCgAhOIiKjdOE6xAdgc8XGDsaTvw/viewform?usp=dialog

Your participation would be greatly appreciated and will contribute meaningfully to my FYP research. ❤️

Thank you so much for your time and support! If possible, I would also appreciate it if you could share this questionnaire with other Malaysian youths aged 18–30. 🫶🏻

u/Commoner_User — 1 day ago

Astolfo (from Anime Fate/Apocrypha) on Form 5 Science question 🤣

Bored while study science, i used Inspect Element to edit it into more fun😂
Btw, did i created new meme?

u/UpstairsPlant3192 — 2 days ago

Should I actually disclose my ADHD to an already admitted Uni?

So I just recently got diagnosed with ADHD and are currently trying medication right after I got my UPU and I’m currently pondering over this borang kemasukan pelajar from the Uni on the health section.

I’ve never needed to fill this with anything so I don’t what implication it will brings if I actually disclose a “kecacatan”.

Can they suddenly pull my admission? What differs if I did disclose it compares to if I didn’t?

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u/MotivatedFailure — 3 days ago

I have been accepted into UM , I am an international student

Hey guys I just got into UM , I applied for BA in International Strategic Studies. I am from Zimbabwe , Africa

How is the accomodation situation for International Students. What are the rates ?

Is Bahasi hard to learn ? Which resources should I use ?

How do students network generally ?

International and local students?

How is the school environment?

Are school clubs accommodating for international students?

I don't wanna go in blind , Let's hear your opinions

Let it rip!!!

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Anyone got a Maybank Internship? Need advice

I’ve been trying to get an internship at Maybank - applied across June/Jul/Aug/Sept/Oct/Nov intakes for this year. And every time on the Maybank job portal, I would see no updates except for when that intake actually closes

I really want to join Maybank, for a voluntary internship. Can anyone share some tips?

Things I have done:
- reached out on LinkedIn to existing Maybank staff and 1 said they will forward to Group HR. Passed my CV, but no response
- spoke to many recruiters at career fairs, they have all said they receive thousands of applications every intake and to wait and see
- 1 recruiter helped to forward my CV but she forwarded to Etiqa’s recruiter who contacted me for a Protege program which I’m sadly not interested in.

I have academic, leadership, competition and past internship experiences

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u/Chipmunk1067 — 2 days ago

Rant - Tired of the Discrimination!

Me and my other international friends can't be the only ones experiencing this! I'm almost done with my degree luckily but it's still so tiring having to deal with this every single time!

For context, I'm an international student at a private Malaysian uni, and this is just one of the many discriminatory incidences that have happened to me over the course of my degree life in Malaysia. We had an exam and was told to sit at different places told by the lecturer. I kept going to where the lecturer wanted me to go but up for some effing reason the lecturer keeps swarming around us thinking we're gonna copy WHEN we have no absolute record of doing that in the first place?? And they got annoyed because we're at the side farthest from the front too meaning they would have to walk around us to keep checking if we copied or not. You put us there and you're scolding us right before the exam for sitting at the place you wanted?? Open your eyes! The malay students are literally copying right in front of you! But you turn a blind eye towards them and we're the target instead??

And yes the lecturer is malay. All of them are for my medical course. We know for a fact they're not as smart as us too, but somehow when the grades come in ofcourse the malay students score higher 😂😂 No wonder the lecturers' never show us the results for any exams or any assignments.

If you're wondering why we never complaint, Well, first few semesters we've asked them for a meeting to discuss our final grades so we can understand where we went wrong. Got hit with messages saying "the results are already finalized, cannot meet". Can't even approach the dean about it either because seniors have tried and when the lecturers found out, they became an instant target and made sure their grades got even lower.

Yes it's only malays! Not malaysians! Our class have malaysian indians and malaysian chinese, but even they get affected. Ofcourse not as affected as us but my heart still goes out to them.

I'm just tired! Tired of walking around on egg shells! Tired of having to work harder to be on the lecturers' good graces! Tired of trying to always having to do my best just so I can get decent grades or even a pass when I know I deserve more than that! Especially when the malays do the bare minimum or not even that! I'm just so3 tired of faking it till I make it.... Pray for me guys. Thank you for listening to my rant 🫂

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u/WeirdGirlatWork — 3 days ago

I really want to this out of my chest (rant)

I really freaking hate my stpm experience. I have been telling myself for the past one year telling myself it will get better and it's just part of the process and honestly a lot of things has been getting on my nerves. The school keeps expecting my class (specifically my class) to get better grades compared to others when we were given like 3 worst teachers in the school and each teaches the most crucial subjects for a science student, physics mathematics and chemistry. Like other classes have some of the nicest and greatest teachers there are and mine was stuck with 3 of the worst ones. I personally am a hard working student I do my revision and hw almost all the time. The problem is the class taught by those 3 were so bad I literally need to spend double the time just to restudy the whole thing myself. Like this just bs and it's too much for me. I have to study physics myself, teach myself everything from start to finish for math. Chemistry was still fine BCS classes merge but I barely see my teacher teach or even care bout us. Idw to mention the school's name as Idw to cause too much drama but it's a particularly famous school in Penang, the school was never as good as it claims. It produced great students bcs the students themselves are hard working. I'm really tired with what's been happening for the past one year. It really sucked to see other classes can have engaging interactions with their teacher and gain insight while mine was just as clueless and dumb as us. The lack of action and the lack of responsibilities really disgusts me

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u/Lemon_boi5491 — 2 days ago

Indian students' experience in UNIMAS

Hi! I'm a student from Semenanjung who recently got UNIMAS, and I'll be starting there soon. I'm Indian, and one thing I've been wondering about is what the experience is actually like for Indian students at UNIMAS.

I know UNIMAS is generally described as a multicultural university, but I'd really like to hear from people who've actually studied there, especially Indian students, other Semenanjung students, or Sarawakians who have Indian friends/classmates.

  1. Are there many Indian students in UNIMAS, or are we quite a small minority?

  2. Is there an Indian student community/society, or do Indian students generally just mix with everyone?

  3. How easy is it for Semenanjung students to make friends with Sarawakian students?

  4. Did you ever experience feeling culturally out of place or isolated?

  5. Are there any differences in food, festivals, language, religion, etc. that an Indian/Semenanjung student might need to get used to?

  6. How's the food there? I know there will be little to no Indian food😭but are Chinese and western food available?

Most importantly, what was your experience actually like, rather than just whether UNIMAS is “good”?

I'm asking because I'll be moving quite far from home and I'm honestly a little nervous about fitting in 😭. I'd really appreciate honest experiences, including negative ones if there are any.

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u/Ornery_Switch_8731 — 2 days ago