u/Hanniio-

So recently I’ve been getting trouble trying to figure out which one I am, I’ve been debating that I got either INFJ or ISFJ, but can’t choose since I relate to both Ni and Si strongly.
And I’ve been reading lot through both of them but still couldn’t stick to one.

And most people would explain how the functions work, but I would look forward to someone explaining them each by giving examples of real life scenarios rather than just explaining them(ex: “Si is past-oriented and Ni is future oriented), I know that but I can’t tell which one I belong to.

So please! If anyone could make me imagine a scenario and think of what I’d most likely do in it and then explain how each function would act in that specific “scenario”, then I’d really appreciate it! However, I will tell a few points I agree with each:

NI
- I’ve heard that these people predict things pretty well and have strong intuition, which I would very much relate to, recently I’ve been predicting things and it would happen just a few seconds or minutes later, I don’t know if people mean it in that way, but that’s how it works for me, and for the intuition part, this could sound silly, but I usually wouldn’t study for an exam, just trust my intuition and randomly get a decent grade out of no where, hehe, idk I’d this connects with Ni or not but it won’t hurt mentioning it, maybe it could actually make some of y’all figure something I didn’t know.

- also, I somewhat think of the big picture in a way, for example: once me and my friends had a project, and by the day we had to present it, we found out that we had a mistake in one of the slides, and although I’d be the one to usually worry about it, my friend who’s an INTP was FREAKING OUT, like I’ve never seen her that stressed before, but through out her outbursts, I worried and tried to reassure her that even tho we have a small mistake, we still have the general idea there right? As in, people will understand the message were trying to convey through the presentation, why would they worry so much about a small mistake? And btw, i was always the person that cares about those small mistake, i need thing perfect to function, but when it comes to situations like this, where I can’t do anything about it, i would suddenly think of the big picture and ignore everything else cause I literally can’t do anything about it. And I even remember acting dumb that day when the teacher asked about it, but I just told her some lame excuse and she let it slide😛

Si
- for si, I know that they’re people that value details which gives them an excellent memory, which I believe I have, for ex: whenever I get the motivation to study, I’d read one sentence and instantly get distracted for at least 2 hours, but even after these two hours, I’d remember that sentence very well even tho I didn’t pay much attention to it, HOWEVER, if you ask any of my friends “who has the worst memory?”, I could guarantee you their answer would be me, but why do I have a great memory when I forget everything my friends try to make me remember? I thought the answer would be that I just couldn’t care less about what one of my friends are trying to tell me about, which is most likely true, cause they judge my memory with things that happened three years ago in a random day, do Si’s remember that too?

- and for the routines part, this one made me doubt I’m an Ni dom, but I am a person that HATES following someone else’s routine, for example: if I’m going to school, I would like to take my time focusing on my own morning routine, but when I remember that my dad has to drive me and has work himself, it frustrates me, cause now, I have to wake up, eat, leave the house, and all the other things at a time that matches the time he’s willing to leave the house, which I don’t like! I love taking my time, especially in the morning, that why I always fantasise about the future, in where I want to live alone and not have to worry about anyone else’s routine, another example: whenever I plan to make myself lunch but then find out my mom already made food, don’t get me wrong, I appreciate my moms work deeply and would never tell her anything about my plan, but I would feel quite disappointed, but suck it up eventually and just eat.

- HOWEVERRR, why I also doubt I’m an Si is because they suffocate the hell out of me, last year, I had a seat mate of mine that was an ISTJ, and yes I did like the idea at first, but after time, I realised how hella frustrating they could be, what I mean by that is that—> in the middle of classes, I get bored so easily and have the sudden urge to mess with someone, considering that I can’t sit still for more than three seconds, sometimes I’d just stare at her whilst she’s writing down notes like everyday and have that basest urge to tickle her side so that she shows a slight reaction.

I remember how I used to giggle alone in the middle of classes whenever I find something funny, and she wouldn’t give a fuck, she’d just stare, like god, a small smile won’t hurt I promise.
And I would keep in mind how many times we’ve spoken to each other through out the whole year, which was only once, that was the only time she grew the confidence to look me straight in the eyes and ask me “do you have a sharpener?”, I remember how I froze and stared in confusion, but internally? I felt like a proud mother, SHE FINALLY SPOKE!! FOR THE FIRST TIME THROUGH OUT THE WHOLE YEAR??!! YESSSSS!!. I didn’t even care that she was asking about a damn sharpener, I literally gave her my whole pencil case, desperate for her to finally talk to me out of the boredom I went through sitting close to her.

- something else I didn’t mention was how I feel way more sense around Si’s, mostly istjs and estjs, they do seem like they’re aware of everything around them, it creeps me out, this same istj girl, I’d always make sure I smell nice and am still as much as possible, and remember the days I would forget to eat breakfast and have my stomach growling for a whole hour before break time, which was almost everyday, being close to her, I felt like she could hear it clearly, she’s never oblivious😿, and for estjs, they scare me fr, I would try to hide something from them but they’d instantly tell.

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I think that’s that’s the most I know, y’all please type my ass, I’m having a personality crisis thing…💔 help…luv you😸

Hi!!! Can some one predict my typology by random facts about me? You can mention anything(mbti, enneagram, instinctual variants, Socionics, motives, cognitive functions, etc…) I’m all curious:

- I’m a very observant person that loves watching people for the sake of it, I get pretty curious over anything, example: ( if two people were arguing over something, I’d be the first to want to know, even tho I’m not familiar with who these people are)
- I grew up in an unemotional household, causing me to find difficulty dealing with my emotions, so I just feel guilty for everything, example: (if I caused a small issue or a little problem, especially towards people that are strong-willed and authoritative, I feel a deep sense of guilt and shame, to the point where I’ll never speak to them again.)
- I’m pretty sensitive, which people find surprising, to people, I seem like a judgment ghost (a literal name I was given by a few people at school), I think people see me as an unapproachable person, but my personality is nothing like that, I’m not as cold as I seem.
- I’m an empathetic person, I always feel a deep feeling of sadness for people, and in some cases, even towards the people that caused me hell, I’d still feel bad for them.
- I’m not a person that takes things too deep, I’m the type of person to help if needed, doesn’t matter if we’re apart, or have problems between each other, if you need me with anything, I’ll always be there, cause once, you were someone that I cherished, and I wish people noticed that about me, but I don’t think anyone will.
- I love talking to people, especially the smart logical people, they’re my favourite people to talk to, cause I prioritise logic and sometimes I don’t make the best arguments, so when someone corrects me, I admire them, which leads me to my other point =>
- I love reasoning, I always look out for the reason behind something , all the time, it would be the first question I ever ask myself, I just love it.
- I’m a very quiet and shy person, like ridiculously quiet, cause I’m afraid if I speak, people wouldn’t accept me.
- I always expect people’s treatment towards me to be negative, that’s why I would appear enthusiastic when someone decides to be nice to me, cause I would never expect it and it’s such a good feeling, cause it seems like a form of approval that now => its okay for me to talk to these people => they won’t push me away-they’re nice.
- I love making people proud of me, I feel like most people don’t feel any sense of pride towards me because they always expect more.

Do y’all think that’s enough!? Hehe…I think I rambled too much, but anyway, please don’t ignore me! I’d be thrilled to see a few comments about this, I’ll be waiting! 😸🤍

I think my enneagrams a 6 but can’t figure out my instinctual variant
I’ll say this about myself:

I think I do look for validation from others and look for connections, I do have a desire to have casual relationships with my classmates but it doesn’t seem like it ever happens to me.
I’m a very observant person and compare myself to others, and recently, I’ve noticed how my classmates act around each other, they seem comfortable with each other and always approach each other casually, but never towards me, I’m never approached, never talked to, even if it’s a simple question like “what’s the hw?”, they never speak to me which pisses me off and honestly upsets me, but I’ll admit, I could be apart of the problem, cause I never approach anyway, a fear of rejection or judgment, and bothering someone is my biggest fear, so I never do it

Is this information helpful to figure out what am I? I’m also very interested on one-on-one conversations, I really love it, but also look for peoples validation, however, the one-on-one conversations is my favourite thing and always dream about it, hoping that it’ll happen any day with my favourite people.