u/Headballet

10 - 12 moves per round but so much easier - have managed to keep my SLB for 200 rounds for a change!

I don't know what's changed.

I used to not be able to leave the house without him asking for a hug, and he used to want me to put him to bed every night. He used to seek me out and sit on my lap and want me to do things with him.

He has a thing now where he says I'm not allowed to tell him I love him (nor is his dad), only Rumi (KPDH) is. I still tell him when I forget and when he says that's illegal to say I say oops, but I do.

He doesn't want me to sit near him.

He still seeks me out for stuff but far, far less.

He has been referred for an autism assessment and there is a query over ADHD too - the latter being far more visible, he has big problems with emotional regulation and attention. And because of this, I have corrected him a lot, and am worried that has affected our bond and relationship.

Not sure what I want out of this really. I'm not chasing him, not pressuring him, when he doesn't want me nearby I don't make him feel guilty or anything.

I don't really know what to do. I let him know I'm there.

I feel like he doesn't love me and I'm worried he feels like I don't love him even though I try to show him as much as he allows me to at the moment.

Has anyone else gone through this? There haven't been any big life upsets or anything that would explain it.

We're a family of 4 with an 11 year old and a 5 year old, have been looking forward to this trip for a year. Knew it would be hot and was prepared for that but not over 40 degree hot. Can't postpone. Luckily the apartment is air conditioned. Arriving on Tuesday afternoon.

Sending solidarity to people having to work and get to work in that kind of heat.

Hello! Interested in trying out this gym, but they don't give any info at all about cost. Don't want to waste my time enquiring about 14 day trial if I can't afford it. Does anyone go and if so could you tell me how much you may? Thanks!