I , 20F and my boyfriend 22M we have been dating over one year now. But our relationship is not going well since May begining. Is this okay?
Hi , I'm 20f and my boyfriend 22M we have been dating for over a year now , honestly he has been the best boyfriend , not in the aspects of putting efforts , but in being obedient and caring about me. He cares alot tbh. But idk our relationship hasn't been good lately , we have been in alot of fights. The fight started because of me complain about him not putting efforts on his own. And it got big to the fact that we decided to break up. Also we have our end sems near (we are design students we have jury , so for jury we bascially have to showcase our work that we did throughout the year) His complain was that I fight and overreact over small stuff and that he's very stressed with his work.
In the end I realised that I was wrong here and he really needs me rn so I went back to him and apologised and we talked about our relationship. While talking I cried and he cried too (He usually don't cry) and we decided to work on our mistakes. I asked him to relax back because I'll be working to make this relationship better but I do expect him to invest a lil bit in terms of basic communication , he agreed. His thing was that I don't fight alot over stupid small stuff and I agreed.
We were good for atleast 3 days after talking it out , really good , he was texting and calling me from time to time. One day he was going for the movies , that lowkey pissed me off because I thought he has alot of work to do , I mentioned that and he was like 'idc I'll do it later' , I was kinda hurt tho but I didn't say anything. Suddenly he didn't contact me at all. For atleast 3 days. I was pissed. I wanted to call him and scream at him but I didn't since I agreed not to.He called me after three days , normally speaking to me , I was pissed , I yelled at him saying go back to your friends right why do you need me and stuff. We argued a bit , he wasn't saying much I was the one yelling. I told him everything I felt , I told him I felt like he manipulated me and stuff , and that I'm the only one trying to save this relationship and stuff (I expect basic communication) and I told him I want to breakup after our exam. He didn't say anything back , we cut the call and didn't talk , I expect him to atleast come to me and talk normally about everything because I was pissed and annoyed he didn't.
In college he was with his friends , idk if he noticed me. But he didn't come to me to talk or even to say hi.
It's a bit selfish thing to say but my whole college life was around him. So except for him I have no other friend.
One of his friends called me normally , and he mentioned he's depressed and sad , and I told him if he is he can also come up and try to save this relationship.
Any advice for this?