u/Hefty-Simple-273

I (22M) have been with my girlfriend (21F) for 3 years. For the last year, we’ve been physically intimate, but she almost never initiates.

I want to be clear: I have never pressured her into anything. If she doesn’t want to, I respect that. My problem is not about getting sex — it’s about wanting to feel desired by my partner.

I’ve told her calmly that it means a lot to me when she shows that she wants me too. But even after talking about it, nothing really changes.

Now I feel stuck. I want her to initiate, but if she only does it because I brought it up repeatedly, it feels like she’s doing it out of obligation rather than genuine desire.

Another thing is that I last for 20+ minutes (excluding foreplay) . She enjoys herself and usually has multiple orgasms, but sometimes she gets tired by the end.

Rn she is mad at me cz she got too tired last time we made out , which she only told after we finished.. otherwise i would have stopped...

I’m confused — am I being selfish for wanting to feel wanted, or is this a normal need in a relationship?

I love her and don’t want her to feel pressured. I just don’t know how to deal with feeling like I’m always the one who wants her first....

Hey , suggest me real life , practical advices I can easily follow man....

1. I started typing in keyboard 10 months ago and learned touch-typing form the beginning..was getting around 10 wpm..
2. after 4-5 months reached around 40-50wpm..
3. then had an bike accident , went through surgeries for 4-5 months..
4. now I have become too inconsistent and having this with proper concentration, and with less concentration around 55+ wpm...
5. I wanna hit 120 in daily life...
6. I have a decent mechanical keyboard but still I use Macbook cz that would be beneficial for me in long term as im in college...

ur real world suggestions will be really helpful man...thank u all..

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I think we should demand for this, i mean the main slogan....and Which minister remains or resigns is secondary.....

Cz Gadkari resignation won't benefit us at all if petrol price remains this unacceptable higher...

So its Gadkari's choice he can resign or stay....

#nithingadkari #E20