u/Helpful-Bike883

▲ 3 r/TransHelpingTrans+1 crossposts

What is gender dysphoria exactly?

Self-identified trans girl here. 3 weeks on hrt.. I just need to make sure... (Make sure I'm not making a mistake etc).. What exactly is.. gender dysphoria? I think I understand its usually said to be a distress caused from incongruence with sex characteristics and internal gender identity (among other things).. but what exactly does that feel like emotionally/mentally..? Funny thing is, as a "guy" who is considered conventionally attractive in certain ways, this general script of "well I'm a decent looking chap" was the MO I just went along with for some years.. but considering I suspect I may have some kind of alexithymia which prevents me from kind of having an emotional measure/check/assessment on things.. I am left with a kind of uncertainty about this transition I'm undergoing. I seem to be unable to care enough to do the imagination experiments of my new feminine form, namely boobs, that many trans folk are able to feel confident about. I think this may be about chest hair dysphoria. I still remain pretty solid on my trans identity but I figured at 3 weeks in would be a good time to inquire on here. Still boymoding and look exactly the same I feel.

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u/Helpful-Bike883 — 2 days ago
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Can I qualify for CDL?

Just seeking opinion or reference in regards to being able to qualify for a CDL and subsequent employment with a trucking company. I have had a single DUI from around 5 years ago and a few other basic tickets on my record. I've still yet to reinstates my regular DL and haven't drove a vehicle since the DUI. I'm just wondering if anyone could point me in the right direction or level with me on whether a CDL and trucking career is still attainable for me.

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u/Helpful-Bike883 — 12 days ago

I wanna hear what the trans community thinks about assuming gender. I am trans f myself. Honestly it doesn't sound like a bad idea but it may take some effort to unlearn not assuming or trying to guess lol. That being said idk bc I thought some trans folk like having their gender assumed or guessed. I could be wrong but I thought that was part of transitioning. Is this something to take seriously? I've only heard about this concept vaguely.

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u/Helpful-Bike883 — 15 days ago