u/Historical_Avocado_8

So my sister’s dating this guy for 8 months now. I don’t know him that much so my conversations with him have been surface level just small talk kinda interactions so far.

Came home tonight with him and my sister watching tv. He proceeds to tell me that he encountered someone today who shares the same name as me. Please note that my name is kinda rare so it’s not common to meet someone who shares my name.

He proceeded to say “I know two (my name)s now, both are psycho.”

I couldn’t laugh at his supposed “joke” so i just went “I see”

My sis and her baby live with me in my house. Not to be a dictator but i find it sooo weird he talks like this to me in my own house.

First incident was when he baked a tray lf brownies for everyone, i attempted to cut a piece but then he didnt like the way i sliced it and said “Just cut it like a normal person”

AIO or this is rude from someone i barely know?

My (33F) partner (33M) have been together for 7 years now. We had our ups and downs but the biggest problem is his communication style or lack of it.

Whenever I try to have a heart to heart conversation with him about what I want and need from our relationship, he withdraws from the convo or only half engage by continuing to be on his phone while claiming he can still listen to me. So he continues to doom scroll while I pour my heart out. Begging him to listen.

Last night my partner received a call from his sister about her marital issues. Partner’s sister stayed at their parents to “cool down” from an argument with her husband. Partner’s brother-in-law said some hurtful things to his wife which ultimately made partner’s sister decide to stay their parents house in the meantime.

My partner talked to his brother-in-law for 3 hours last night to understand where he’s coming from as requested by his sister. This was his way of helping his sister out.

AIO for being offended that he is willing to talk it out with his brother-in-law to help his sister out BUT NOT WILLING TO COMMUNICATE WITH ME when I try to talk to him about our problems.

He doesnt seem to understand why this hurts me. I tried to talk to him to ask why this is the case but again, he dismissed me. His reason was that this is his sister’s problem and he just wanted to help out.