I want to believe I still have a chance in having this kind of marriage... but ... reality keeps slapping me....
Do u think that we can have this for real one day....
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As an Algerian millennial, browsing Algerian Discord channels, subreddits, and Snapchat honestly made me dizzy. I felt completely out of place like an alien observing a world I don’t quite belong to.
Other than this subreddit specifically, plus Facebook, Telegram, WhatsApp, and maybe Instagram… I genuinely don’t think an algerian millennial can handle the generational gap on those other apps 😅
So yeah, I’ve officially accepted my fate and decided to stick to Reddit and Facebook only lol.
Anyone else feel the same or am I just getting old? 👀
Can someone tell me does discord work ??? I wanna use it but I'm honestly feeling so dumb hhhh
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I’ll start with myself.
I kinda want an intellectual person who’s well educated and at the same time conservative when it comes to relationships. Not open-minded in the modern sense of relationships, but someone who respects halal boundaries to a an extent, values something pure, and is genuinely interested in my character more than just physical appearance. Someone intelligent, stable, responsible, and who understands his role as a provider.
The thing is… I do believe men like that exist. But I find them either already married or , not very visible socially and equally selective themselves.
And that’s where I start questioning things.
Maybe I do have high standards..?But at the same time, I don’t feel like what I’m asking for is unreasonable ..maybe just rare.
I also think part of the issue might be low exposure to the right kind of people..also my preference for deep connections.. i can’t do superficial, and honestly, some insecurity about my looks and age.
I’d say I’m average-looking. I try to improve what I can , but I’m also realistic. And sometimes I feel like I’m asking for someone above my league in terms of character, not looks.
So it leaves me with very few real opportunities in real life.
Lately I’ve been thinking maybe I’m asking the wrong question.
Instead of Why can’t I find him? maybe I should be asking where would a man like this realistically be and how would I be visible to him?
Because men like that are rarely loud in reality or in social media. They don’t usually chase women or engage in random flirting are afraid themselves of approaching women the wrong ways. They’re often in ..professional environments or religious circles..or small, tight social networks
The thing is… I’ve already been in those environments throughout my 20s and even now. And I still wasn’t approached by that type.
So I’m left wondering...
Is it timing? Visibility? Something about me? My looks?my character ? Am i complex ? Or just the reality that this combination is genuinely hard to find?
Have any of you noticed patterns in your own life that might explain why you’re still single?
I’m seeing a constant stream of posts from teens and men in their early 20s expressing their hardships with dating in Algeria. Frankly, of course you’re having those problems wether straight or gay you're young and living in a country where you cannot simply marry at that age and is prohibited for the lgptq. At that age the only real option is to find a way to live in peace with yourself. That is the reality of our country.
My question is: how many of you here who are actually grown-ups ? I’m looking for a space where we can actually discuss the problems we face as adults who are trying to find decent, stable partners to settle down with.
It feels like the basics are drowning out the real conversations about long-term companionship and building a life here. Am I the only one looking for something more substantial than just venting about the obvious?
I’m an English teacher in my 30s, and I’m looking for a serious speaking partner with a C2 or native level of English.
I’d like to have daily evening conversations (voice or text) focused on meaningful, engaging topics intellectual discussions...anything from culture and society to personal topics, teaching, or everyday life.
I’m specifically looking for someone:
With a high level of fluency (C2 or native)
Around my age (late 20s–30s)
Available consistently in the evenings
Comfortable speaking English only
The goal is to maintain and refine my level through regular, natural interaction...not formal lessons...I really feel a need for that as I'm feeling a less behind...I believe teaching low levels is affecting me badly.
If you’re interested, feel free to reach out.
I’m an English teacher in my 30s, and I’m looking for a serious speaking partner with a C2 or native level of English.
I’d like to have daily evening conversations (voice or text) focused on meaningful, engaging topics intellectual discussions...anything from culture and society to personal topics, teaching, or everyday life.
I’m specifically looking for someone:
With a high level of fluency (C2 or native)
Around my age (late 20s–30s)
Available consistently in the evenings
Comfortable speaking English only
The goal is to maintain and refine my level through regular, natural interaction...not formal lessons...I really feel a need for that as I'm feeling a less behind...I believe teaching low levels is affecting me badly.
If you’re interested, feel free to reach out.
Buying a sheep every year for eid despite rising costs comes from social pressure, not religious necessity... It has become a tradition enforced by shame rather than a required act to please Allah... but Allah do not pressure you to sacrifice if you don't have the money !
Why most people do not understand this simple truth !
So many single men today are super hesitant about marriage..some are even against it by default. It got me curious about the thought process behind such a decision for a man.
I’d love to hear from the married brothers ..how did you finally took the decision to marry ?
Was it a long term plan ? Did you sit down and weigh the pros and cons, or did you just know when you met your spouse ? Did the decision happen in the heat of a moment or a specific life event that changed your perspective?
Do you think most Algerian men follow a certain cultural script, or was your approach unique?..I’d love to hear your stories. What pushed you over the edge from single and free to I'm ready for this ?
Hey everyone, I’m looking for a good video editor mainly for some advice, and maybe a smal paid service if things work out. If you’re available or know someone, I’d really appreciate it!
In the east we have two types of chakhchokha.
The one in the first picture is chakhchokha mjamra, which is famously made in Constantine. It’s usually prepared with meat only chicken, lamb, or beef along with just one type of vegetable, typically zucchini or turnip, plus chickpeas. The chakhchokha is thick and flaky. Some people call it chakhchokhat edhfar شخشوخة الظفر because it’s either made by hand or prepared by machine.
The second type is chakhchokhat sayar شخشوخة السيار. It’s much thinner and lighter, and it’s not cooked directly in the sauce..we just pour the sauce over it .You can add all kinds of vegetables on top anything you like.. It’s really delicious.
I love both types equally, but I’m better at making chakhchokhat edhfar.
How do you usually prepare chakhchokha in your region?
The heat is unbearable today ... its literally summer vibes ..I wouldn't be able to handle tajin anymore lol ...
My boomer parents used to dress me boys clothes with my brothers..I was fighting over pants and socks and shirts with my younger bro ... aaaahhh :)
Every evening...I feel this pull to reach out to someone ..anyone, really. A friend, a coworker, even just texting someone who probably doesn't want to hear from me. I'll hover over my phone for like hours Sometimes I do reach out, sometimes I don't, but either way it feels kind of pathetic....
It's not like I'm miserable during the day. But something about the end of the day hits different and I suddenly feel this urge to connect or have someone to land with.
Is this just a me thing or does everyone have this? And more importantly ..how do you stop needing it? I don't want to feel dependent on other people to feel that someone in this world is interested in me ..I want to break free from this feeling but im stuck... no matter I do ..