Just a quick note on the Jax "controversy".
I just wanted to make a post because a lot of the people in here claiming to be so pro-LGBTQ are sure quick to forget >>femboys<< exist. (Yeah, I felt personally offended at a lot of the recent discourse.)
Point being, I relate heavily to Jax in this department. I love to dress feminine. Every time Im getting ready to go to a con I pack my nail-polish, my blush, my knee highs and so on. I was pressured from my family to be into football and to be "big and strong" but I ended up being more feminine. I used to hide my MLP watchings from my older brother in fear. I prefer to feel cute and endearing over big and gruff. However I still, and always will use he/him.
Point is, every thing with Jax can also completely corellate to someone like me. That's why a lot of us don't immediately hop to them being transfemme. It almost feels completely noninclusive to those like me for people to be throwing around "transphobic" and stuff at people who disagree with your interpretation.
Just something for yall to be aware of. Interpret it how you want to. But for a group claiming to be so inclusive it almost feels like a huge portion of the LGTBQ+ members/allies gets forgotten on a daily basis.
Spread love and respect others opinions/intepretations unless they're being actually rude and hateful. I can already see this discourse lasting the rest of this fandoms life, just like the AppleDash one.