u/Hope-Work-Play-Fun

Does anyone have information regarding the dollar drain on the consumer sales economy due to high fuel prices? The fuel stocks are maintaining the market stock highs and profits of Wall Street. Why doesn't the recent monthly inflation rate reflect the increased cost of fuel? Will summer tourism be reduced due to the high cost of fuel? I noticed less cars traveling on the roads.

Is a tax on windfall corporate profits warranted to reduce our reckless surging federal debt?

~ One's healthy mindfulness works for success. ~

Rejection from someone leads to acceptance from someone else.

Caring for oneself is not negotiable with someone else.

The To Do List should include To Play.

~Now is always an opportunity to change a behavior for forever.~

Believe in the life you lead.

Being kind to oneself, heals oneself.

One does, the best, one can.

~ I am the joy that wills me to experience the immediacy of happiness. ~

           I am the joy that wills
           me to experience
           the immediacy of happiness.  

It is okay to occasionally reflect on the past to obtain knowledge about past social experiences.

People who no longer add social value to one's life should not be invited for placement on one's social menu.

My fantasy creations about people who are beyond social engagement with me has lessened since I have been asking myself, "What is my Emotional Time Awareness, ETA ?"

Whenever I drift away in my thoughts, about past social experiences, I redirect myself to the present moment of time.

What is my current Emotional Time Awareness, ETA?

My Emotional Time Awareness, ETA, must focus on clarifying my emotional status in relation to my present feelings and needs.

One's Emotional Time Awareness, ETA, teaches one to be engaged with one's creative ability to expand one's self-esteem, self-worth and self-fullfillment.

The most effective encouragement one can provide oneself is to be appreciative of one's ability to change one's behavior.

I value the empathy that I provide myself.

My Emotional Time Awareness, ETA, is constantly being influenced by conscious and unconscious thoughts.

I seek the mindfulness to always be reflective of my Emotional Time Awareness, ETA.

             I am the joy that wills
             me to experience 
             the immediacy of happiness.

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The LO provides "breadcrumbs" of social engagement. The LO knows we will respond. I view the LO of knowing exactly how to stir us up, in order to provide the LO with attention.

Has anyone discovered that the LO seems socially delayed and depends on us for heaping praise, to make up for their impaired social network?

I revised this sonnet poem about my experience of limerence.

I hope for you, to discover the healing within you.

♡ One does, the best, one can. ♡

Being kind to oneself, heals oneself.

 ☆☆☆☆☆  Ode to Limerence  ☆☆☆☆☆


I led myself to the wonder of you.

To dream lives within me.

I am of ecstasy,
Seeking comfort in desire.

I play by romance,
Faithful and peaceful.

Now, by a thought of you, I gently sigh.
Self-fullfillment welcomes the clarity.

I kindly lead,
My self-worth to uphold my heart.

To be loved,
One's mindfulness discovers beauty.

I am embraced,
Knowing I am free.

For some days, which are planned, all tasks are accomplished, due to self- monitored focusing.

For other days, which are also planned, minimal tasks are accomplished, due to the wandering fantasy loop about the LO.

I write my daily tasks and frequently review them, to stay out of the fantasy loop about the LO.

Having a limerence experience history requires me to reorient to reality whenever the fantasy loop stalls me.

To stay focused on my goals, I validate my self-worth.

~ Being kind to oneself, heals oneself. ~

Looking back, I made a mistake by highlighting the discovery of a person, the LO, over the inventory of myself.

The prominent fact of my discovery about the LO, was favoring the listening capacity of the LO. I should have taken an inventory of myself, which would have revealed that I was capable of listening to myself just as the LO.

By "listening capacity", I am referring to knowing one's definition of dreams.

I valued, more than I valued myself, the LO's analysis of me due to fantasy thinking. Believing the LO as credible in evaluating my dreams is a loop that I created, which lowered my self-esteem.

Now, I make an inventory of myself when limerence seems to be happening.

The discovery of one person can overwhelm the inventory of myself.

Being mindful, by taking an inventory of your gifts, prevents fantastical hoping binges for a potential charming mate.

I doubt any contact with a LO from my past would discuss this self-analysis related to limerence.

Defining limerence, after no contact. What behavior in you has evolved?

One uses the term Limerent Object, in a reference to the person by whom has limerence behavior.

It seems that once one has gone No Contact, one should describe new behavior as the post limerence experience.

Since you experienced limerence, what behavior have you noticed within yourself?

I have noticed a low expectation I have from others when I explain limerence. But more important, I learned about the lack of empathy from others when explaining any of my behaviors or needs.

To summarize, the limerence experience has taught me to value myself more and be proud of the empathy I have for myself and others. By empathy, I am referring to listening to myself and others.

Be available to heal oneself and others by listening for the need being expressed.