Am I being toxic?
Hi all. I need your help!
I know a girl since 2 years. We dated for 8-9 months or so. We broke up cause she had a male bestfriend whom she used to go out with. We were in long distance and everytime, I used to object to her roaming with him, she used to get offended and say that "he is just my friend. You are getting insecure". I tried my best to make her understand. Unfortunately, she did not(I feel, for her, the friendship with him was of higher priority than our relationship).
We didnt speak for a few months. Later, we started speaking as friends do(which I feel was wrong). We again started falling for each other. And she openly told me that she loves me(but, we arent in an official relationship)
Today, she is texting me that she is planning of going to some place to roam for 3 days and 'only she and her make bestfriend' are going (She didnt ask me cause she knew I wouldnt get leaves. And, she is leaving that place and shifting to my city due to which she doesnt know when she will meet him again).
Guys, am I internally overreacting and feeling that THIS IS WRONG for her to do it! I know that, if I tell that I'm not Ok with this, she will again say that I'm insecure and all that crap. But, can anyone please tell me if I'm wrong anywhere? Or my thought process is wrong?