u/Hot-Region-5223

hello so i am not a nigerian but i have a question. there is this girl i love who is from nigeria she is very gorgeous and very kind and i want to impress her somehow, are there some things that nigerian people are impressed with when someone not from their country does or idk? our cultures are different and i really want to kind of impress her thank you a lot for answers from ahead :))

im still figuring stuff out and these thoughts have been torturing me for years and its the time i actually asked advice from trans people

well i am born a woman. but as a kid i was mistreated a lot with my gender as an excuse and because of that since i was 6 ive been desiring to be a man. i never really took it serious until this year. something felt off. i kept experimenting, demigirl, genderfluid and ect and it felt right for a bit, but never again. when i tell my experience to someone they just say i am confused and its all because of trauma. i genuenly dont experience dysmorphia much. ive always hated the way i look and over the time i got numb and not having dysmorphia soo much like ive seen with other people makes me scared i fake it. my best friend says she is used to seeing me as a girl so its hard for her to randomly switch and my ex used to misgender me all the time. and my family is super religious,even short hair is too masculine to them. thats why most trans tips dont work for me. i genuenly am so confused it drives me crazy. i want to be a dude but am i ''really'' one???? im just scared a lot and idk what to do

thanks for any kinds of tips or anything else. i just want someone to be clear and honest with me this confusion has been killing me alive