u/HotWinter_

Just graduated from my LAC today and wanted to share the two downsides I wish I knew.

  • high teaching quality doesn't equal high research quality.

LACs are really bad in academic quality in terms of how active professors are doing research, how much they know about the current edges, and how updated their course content are. This is particularly relevant for social sciences but also computer sciences and other STEM. This means you might be taking a social science class that refers to sources averaging from 20 years old to 50 years old.

It is true faculty are extremely willing to help, but there is a limit to how much will can do, since their own capability in succeeding as a scholar / anyone in 2026 is not guaranteed. If you truly want to do well in academia or a prestigious profession, you will probably have to apply to a lot of external programs to get there. LACs will support you once you are *admitted* to the opportunity by giving you funding or logistic flexibility, but LACs usually cannot support you finding or getting into those programs.

My college is top ranking and I am in a top department, yet I will say 80% of the faculty don't go to any professional conferences everyday, when going to professional conferences is literally a core thing of being a scholar and the main venue for staying in touch with the field. If they don't do it, they can't tell you what research direction get you gradschools and jobs and what leave you unemployed. Bascially good luck on your own.

willingness to help != capacity to help; moral support != professional support.

you need both to succeed, but LACs only give you the first.

  • The students are sovereign but make bad decisions without checks and balances.

If you have heard about self governance you know students take pride in it. This means strong trust, tight community, and benefits from high autonomy etc., but this also means unpopular opinions (even faculty opinions) get cancelled by the mass and controversial but valuable institutional actions get blocked without careful deliberation.

The paradigm example is AI. My college student body is so anti-AI that any institutional or departmental discussions would be boycotted. It's okay when people hold stances, but at LACs this means there will be no labs, initiatives, centers, research equipments, workshops, or institutional subscriptions for you on AI but students reject it. Imagine how being trapped in this will impact your ability to make good judgement about the job market and society in general.

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I don't regret coming here I just wish I transferred away after my first two years. Really the ROI is higher for the first two years because it was general education on how to think. Once you become a mature thinker and are just aiming for disciplinary expertise, LACs are not the best places.

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u/HotWinter_ — 16 days ago
▲ 5 r/AskMen

hi....Girl here. Living in a small town and I have been exploring dating App recently with a lot of likes.

My profile is a bit special and kind of easy to recognize (6'0, other uncommon characteristics etc.) and i mostly live in an university town.

I am a bit anxious about privacy, living alone and preferring quiet, this concern really drives me crazy.

Have you ever paid attention enough to recognize a stranger you've seen online? If so would you have said hi? How would you feel running into someone who abruptly unmatched after a few messages? How would you think about them?

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u/HotWinter_ — 19 days ago

hi! autistic girl here.

i learned to be very performatively likable to neurotypicals that my professional and dating records have been great since adulthood. i started to be able to build any connections i want

however, i increasingly feel like all the relationships arent equal - when ppl show warm gestures in their way (checking in, initiating activities, make plans, and praising), i really dont feel anything or get happier / calmer / feel more fulfilled afterward. Meanwhile, i am conceding a siginicant portion of my time and energy to go with their vibes.

i dont have any friends or dates i actually like and i find myself constantly accepting friends passively and then feeling unable to communicate how i would like to be treated till it reaches a breakpoint that i cut them off.

what to do?

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u/HotWinter_ — 19 days ago