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Okay I need unbiased opinions because my friends are laughing at me and I genuinely cannot tell if this is as humiliating as it feels 😭

So I had this guy I was talking to/liked a lot. Things ended and during our last conversation I basically told him I wouldn’t contact him again because I wanted to move on properly. We stopped talking after that.

Fast forward to now: I still miss him sometimes and I had this idea to create a WhatsApp group with only myself in it so I could basically vent there instead of texting him directly. The problem is… while creating the group I accidentally added HIM. Not just one number either TWO of his numbers 😭 And the group name was literally his actual name.

The second I realized what I had done, I panicked, left the group immediately, and blocked him everywhere because I was so embarrassed. At that point I genuinely thought I was blocked already anyway, so I was freaking out trying to figure out whether he had seen it or not.

Then things got worse 💀

Later I checked Truecaller and realized he had actually tried calling me twice after it happened. Since his normal number was blocked, he even tried calling on WhatsApp and then sent a simple “hello.” That immediately sent me into another panic spiral because now I knew he definitely noticed SOMETHING.

After overthinking for hours, I eventually texted him on WhatsApp and replied with a simple “hi”. He hasn’t responded since, but I can see him active/updating his status, which somehow makes this feel even more awkward.

Now I’m stuck between:

1. This is funny and human and I’m overreacting

   and

2. I have permanently destroyed my dignity.

I also can’t tell what his reaction even means because if someone truly thought you were crazy, would they really call 3 times and text calmly? Or was he just confused?

Please be honest but not brutal because my nervous system has already been through enough 😭

Okay I need unbiased opinions because my friends are laughing at me and I genuinely cannot tell if this is as humiliating as it feels 😭

So I had this guy I was talking to/liked a lot. Things ended and during our last conversation I basically told him I wouldn’t contact him again because I wanted to move on properly. We stopped talking after that.

Fast forward to now: I still miss him sometimes and I had this idea to create a WhatsApp group with only myself in it so I could basically vent there instead of texting him directly. The problem is… while creating the group I accidentally added HIM. Not just one number either TWO of his numbers 😭 And the group name was literally his actual name.

The second I realized what I had done, I panicked, left the group immediately, and blocked him everywhere because I was so embarrassed. At that point I genuinely thought I was blocked already anyway, so I was freaking out trying to figure out whether he had seen it or not.

Then things got worse 💀

Later I checked Truecaller and realized he had actually tried calling me twice after it happened. Since his normal number was blocked, he even tried calling on WhatsApp and then sent a simple “hello.” That immediately sent me into another panic spiral because now I knew he definitely noticed SOMETHING.

After overthinking for hours, I eventually texted him on WhatsApp and replied with a simple “hi”. He hasn’t responded since, but I can see him active/updating his status, which somehow makes this feel even more awkward.

Now I’m stuck between:

1. This is funny and human and I’m overreacting

   and

2. I have permanently destroyed my dignity.

I also can’t tell what his reaction even means because if someone truly thought you were crazy, would they really call 3 times and text calmly? Or was he just confused?

Please be honest but not brutal because my nervous system has already been through enough 😭

Okay I need unbiased opinions because my friends are laughing at me and I genuinely cannot tell if this is as humiliating as it feels 😭

So I had this guy I was talking to/liked a lot. Things ended and during our last conversation I basically told him I wouldn’t contact him again because I wanted to move on properly. We stopped talking after that.

Fast forward to now: I still miss him sometimes and I had this idea to create a WhatsApp group with only myself in it so I could basically vent there instead of texting him directly. The problem is… while creating the group I accidentally added HIM. Not just one number either TWO of his numbers 😭 And the group name was literally his actual name.

The second I realized what I had done, I panicked, left the group immediately, and blocked him everywhere because I was so embarrassed. At that point I genuinely thought I was blocked already anyway, so I was freaking out trying to figure out whether he had seen it or not.

Then things got worse 💀

Later I checked Truecaller and realized he had actually tried calling me twice after it happened. Since his normal number was blocked, he even tried calling on WhatsApp and then sent a simple “hello.” That immediately sent me into another panic spiral because now I knew he definitely noticed SOMETHING.

After overthinking for hours, I eventually texted him on WhatsApp and replied with a simple “hi”. He hasn’t responded since, but I can see him active/updating his status, which somehow makes this feel even more awkward.

Now I’m stuck between:

1. This is funny and human and I’m overreacting

   and

2. I have permanently destroyed my dignity.

I also can’t tell what his reaction even means because if someone truly thought you were crazy, would they really call 3 times and text calmly? Or was he just confused?

Please be honest but not brutal because my nervous system has already been through enough 😭