Should I ask him why he rejected me?
Hey everyone!
I (31f) was seeing someone (33m) I met on a dating app. We saw each other about a dozen times and we’d generally hang out until the early hours of the morning…
It always felt very platonic and eventually we just stopped seeing each other but kept in contact.
I think in hindsight he was never attracted to me but I’m just curious as to why he kept seeing me.
To me, I can tell whether someone is attractive within two minutes of meeting them. I’m also used to me trying to sleep with me asap, so I assumed he was being respectful not making a move. (Yes I know- delusional).
Should I ask him what it was all about? I feel really confused about why he bothered to develop a connection for so long then abruptly end things if his attraction was always zero.
For context, I’m not pretty but I’m a healthy weight and take care of myself.
I just want a man’s perspective on what happened because I don’t get it.
Thank you :)
ETA
I didn’t put him in the friend zone. The only one who initiated physical contact was me and in hindsight, he wasn’t receptive to it.