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I’m acc to sad to say much but my previous post from yesterday where I basically talked about how like 3 days ago my family (15 people) publicly embarrassed me in a restaurant. If you want to know more just check my previous post.

I was on Facebook which I use to sell things (I don’t use it as a regular socials at all) and I basically saw the photo that my aunt took of me side by side to my brother when they forcefully made me compare heights. It was in my recommended which I guess why it popped up.

It had so many likes and comments and reading them genuinely hurt. They said shi like ‘my brother will GROW more successful then me’ (they highlighted grow)’ and I was obviously was a bit sad in the photo and people even managed to comment on that.

The worst part was there all people I probably know or will know since there just people friends or related to my aunt. When my mum found out she immediately Mande my aunt delete it and did realise how serious it was since it started like 4 days ago.

I’ve genuinely reached my limit and there’s no way I can recover from this

Last night me, my family and my dad side family and mums side (all cousins) like 15 of us had a massive dinner in this restaurant cause my sister and cousin both graduated law and medicine degrees.

We were all chatting and for most of us it was our first time meeting in person. My brother who is 13 kind of is an attention seeker and since most of the people were all older ignored anything he said cause it was like childish talk if u know what I mean. Randomly he points out to everyone how short I’ve gotten and everyone just stops and stairs.

He is 13 and 5,7.5 and I am 16 5,6. The fact he wasn’t even trying to show how much he grew but instead how short I was really said something to me. I’m starting sixthform to in 2 weeks and this just completely battered any confidence I had.

The worst part was after 2 of my cousins who are twins wanted us to stand side by side to compare and they basically forced me into it and I couldn’t say no cause it was just like in the moment. If it couldn’t get worse my mums sister took a photo too of me and my brother side by side which genuinely broke me.

I had to sit the rest of the dinner in silence while watching my brother get the attention he desperately craved. I always knew I was short from a young age and learnt to deal with it but this was something else.

I’m just starting into a screen rn venting while soemthing inside me just hurts. I knew people could be cruel but not the ones that close to you.

I genuinely don’t know how I’m gonna live the rest of my life like this.

What’s my max height given that I’ve started healthy habits like vitamins, healthy eating stretching, going on a bulk (I’m 48kg), 8hrs sleep etc.

I’m 165cm my dad is 5,9 and mum is 5,1.5 and my brother who is 13 is 5,6.5.

12- 4,11
13- 5,1
14- 5,2.5
15- 5,3
16- 165cm

My 🦴 age is confirmed 2.5 years behind my acc age (16) and started puberty when I was 14.7.

Still have a squeaky voice, baby face, minimal facial hair but do have noticeable armpit hair and downstairs hair that came this year Feb.

I’m barefoot 165cm on the dot but when I fix my posture, wear shoes like airforces, keep my head up, always stand on the higher part of the floor and a load of other things it makes me look way taller than i am.

Most people dont understand why I think im short because next to them (e.g in skl) I somehow look 5,7 - 5,8.

We also had a practical in school and had to use tape measures and people were measuring themselves for fun and when it was my turn I was 5,7.5. I was so surprised but yh.

So basically there are a lot of ways you can make yourselves look taller and also some people may be shorter than they look.

BTW it may seem like I gained that much height from height boosters but I genuinely don’t and just did the things I said above that made me look slightly taller.

For context I’m 165cm 15.9 years old and you can look at my older post if you have any advice for me.

I’m basically turn 16 in 2 weeks and am 165cm. I’ve hit puberty late with the main things starting this year Feb. The doctors did a 🦴 check and said I’m my plates are 2.5 years younger than my acc age. And I haven’t hit the massive growth spurt that people get yet just been consistent.

So my question is does that mean I’m in the body of a 13.5 year old who is 165cm and my growth would be equivalent to there’s.

Dads 5,9.5 and Mums 5,1

12- 4,11
13- 5,1
14- 5,2.5
Basically 16 - 165cm

I’ve attached a lot of info about myself so someone can please accurately predict my height cause I’m going to sixth form soon and genuinely think it might be over.

- I’m 15 basically turning 16.
- I’m 165cm and 48.5kg. I’ve started a clean bulk of 2700 calories a day and I’ve also started going gym 5 days a week.
- I’ve been stretching after waking up and before bed.
- I’ve been taking vitamin d, iron, calcium, magnesium, zinc (the doctor said it’s fine btw).
- Im south Asian and my dad is 5,9 and mum is 5,1.
- I have a brother who is 12 and 5,6.
- my height has been very constant over the years and I havent had that massive growth spurt yet.
- I would say I started the main part of puberty this year in Feb.
- the reason my puberty is late is because I have thyroid (I also take thyroxine).
- My 🦴 age is 12 when I was 14.
- I also have a big baby face and look really young if that means anything

I really need some reassurance especially since my brother is taller than me and we have a 3 year age difference and I need some hope in life.

Thanks

BTW this post was taken down quite a few times for some reason so I’m sorry if you’re seeing it again.

So my mum wanted me to help her with small house renovations which I didn’t mind. One of them was to help in the attic. It was obviously hot up there so I took a fan to blow some air which was stupid of me. The fan ended up blowing this thing called asbestos which is highly cancerous up my nose 😭. It’s only common in old houses which is our house that is currently going through renovations. I obviously removed it from my nose but once you breathe it in it’s there and takes effect like 30 years later. So if I don’t reply to their post in 30 years then ✌️.

Yh you thought. Go back to revising. Just a reminder the papers will never be leaked as the only time and question (not even the paper) have gotten leaked was I think 2022. Anyone who says they have the paper is lying and scamming.

Happy Revision.

I think this mostly applies to the aqa paper but at the front of the paper it asks for your candidate number and exam centre number which you give as normal. But it also asks for your forename, I think surname and signature. Do you need to do that?