Is this a normal kink?

So I posted about this situation a week or so ago.

Basically wife and I tried swapping for first time. Ended up confirming neither of us want other guys involved. So we havent swung with the couple again. Though did do more girl girl stuff and sex with our respective partners on same bed same time. The other wife wanted to be with me more but other husband didnt think it was fair (which no argument there glad he held his boundary) there was also some jealousy that came up for him because he was told by his wife she didn't like bigger penis'. Because he is very small... like probably under 3" and my wife also kind of stopped with him because he was too small for her (she wasnt rude she just said she wanted to finish with me ... im not enormous or anything just 7.5) but the other wife very much enjoyed it and he didnt like that... he said "I thought you didn't like them bigger... but seems like you like it a lot..."

Anyway.

It looks like the other wife got pregnant the night with me. And is about 5 months pregnant. The other husband is pretty sure he is sterile (never doctor verified) but they have unprotected sex always and never get pregnant. Not she is pregnant and it just happens that the due date lines up perfectly with the night her and I were together.

So they are saying its his. Wife and I decided to just let it be, we heavily suspect they were trying to have me get her pregnant so they could have a baby.

Anyway, my question is... the more I process the more I kind of get turned on and find it appealing that I got another man's wife pregnant (most likely). Is that a common... kink? Im guessing its not often will get that opportunity unless the FF couple we are friends with decides they want to have a baby and swap with us (which is possible actually they just havent gotten to ready for baby part lol)

And if it is, is there like a place people go if they are looking for that kind of thing? Like couples looking for "help" I guess lol.

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u/HovercraftIll1258 — 1 month ago
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Advice/thoughts

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So my wife and i attempted swinging once.

With a couple. The girl said she had fertility issues. So her and I did not use barriers.

This happened Dec 23rd.

We recently were told they are pregnant and the guy is "gonna be a dad!" (Which he thought he might he infertile)

Well found out today the due date is 4 months away..... used a calculator and Dec 23rd is right in the when she got pregnant window. They had sex too but the time is.... suspicious.

They seem to be assuming its his. I feel like we should to.... but should we talk to them about it? Like during baby shower or something.

Or just assume its 100% his?

Idk any thoughts.... seems way more likely its his since they had sex way more often.... the timing is just .... suspicious

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u/HovercraftIll1258 — 16 days ago

Shoei X15 visor

Anybody know of some visor options that meet shoei standards I can get?

I have an X-15 and want a red mirror visor, which shoei has a red/orange (not sure how that looks)

But would like the red red ones, and ideally photochromatic.

Price isnt an object. Just want to find high quality and what im looking for. Back up would be shoeis mirror visor and just swap for night

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u/HovercraftIll1258 — 2 months ago

Hello all,

I take MSF on May 23rd.

But my ninja 650 showed yesterday. Im practicing in my quiet neighborhood... cant help it. Soon as I got going first time its the happiest I've been in a loooooooong time. I could do this all day every day lol.

Only problem is... my hands are getting super tired.

Reading I might be death gripping... any tricks to loosen up?

It might be why my throttle control is a bit clunky. I havent gone above 35. Thats where im practicing. Starting, stopping, shifting, down shifting, turning etc. .... actually the leaning feels 100% natural so that's easy enough... not 45 obviously but leaning lol

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u/HovercraftIll1258 — 2 months ago