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Has anyone been in a transactional visa marriage with an ex or something similar with someone you weren’t to keen on but felt safety in the struggle together?

First-gen E Asian. Grew up with a lot of yelling, criticism, and emotional distance from parents, left alone for long periods of time to fend for myself.

I tend to stay in relationships out of obligation/guilt, even when they feel unhealthy.
I’m currently in a long-distance H1B relationship with someone critical/controlling, but I’ve also met someone I genuinely connect with good looking,smart, healthy and citizen of my host country. But I keep getting pulled back to my ex and I feel guilt all around. I feel like I’m living a double life . I feel stuck because of immigration pressure, guilt around everyone involved and going for the better option and leaving the ex/long distance in the dust and like my life isn’t fully mine yet.

?????Has anyone else experienced:
attraction to critical/toxic dynamics
staying out of guilt/obligation
H1B/green card stress affecting dating decisions
How did you handle it

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