FIL problems
So please listen and tell me if I’m the bad person for this.
My FIL apartment (he’s renting) was sold so he needs to get out. We tried our best to find an apartment for him but its always “i dont like the area” , “ can’t pay too high”. He works full-time monday - friday.
Me and my husband offered to stay with us “for a bit” till summer so he can have more time to find.
He took advantage of it so he really didnt make an effort to find one.
Now.. my husband is on the phone with him and reminded that he can only stay till summer. And he guilt trip my husband like “oh u stayed with me when you went down from upstate bla bla bla”
Like bruh? Your son is married now? We also have a 1bd 1bt apartment with big living room thats where he gonna stay.
Now my husband and me are already stressed.. he’s not even here yet. He might move tomorrow or so.
We giving him 4-5 months to stay, as a daughter in law, is that not enough? I bet some will straight up say that he can only stay for a week or month if thats someone else.
Its just so tiring that all my life i’ve been adjusting for people. Its always me..
Am I being selfish or what? I want my peace of mind.
I work every efkn day.. our apartment is my only place to relax.