what if I'm not a woman?

I'm an older butch lesbian in a happy relationship. I've never questioned my gender or pronouns. people usually sir me but quickly correct themselves

i generally feel genderless and i just wear what's comfortable. idk if i may be nonbinary or just not quite woman or something else

i just wanted to ask here about your experiences, a female support group, before i bring this up to my wife

what was your experience like?

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u/IReadNewsSometimes — 4 days ago
▲ 3 r/t4t

25TF4T - sPAIN/euROPE - let's cry about it together

^( ^i ^just ^remembered ^this ^sub ^exists ^)

life is ^s pain and there's nothing we can do about it, so might as well get through it together? whining, crying, hating every moment of it, we shall emerge on the other side as better people

i am a thing doer and i pride myself on bettering my life as much as I'm able to. I'm exercising, training, cleaning, eating well, reading, learning, taking care of my looks, keeping up with my social life. what i just said is a lie, i only do like half of half of those things but i will keep trying instead of giving up

about me, im a big time people fan. i like humans in all their shapes and sizes. especially i like their most important invention: language. I'm a linguistics nerd, even if I've been focusing on other stuff for a while. another big hobby of mine is cooking. i am in love with food and you will also love my food. that is a threat. my favorite landscape feature is mountains, and my favorite water is snow

about you, what is your number one hobby? what thing did you do today? what is your favorite piece of furniture in your house?

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u/IReadNewsSometimes — 10 days ago

25F - sPAIN/euROPE - let's be sad and cry about it together

life is ^s pain and there's nothing we can do about it, so might as well get through it together? whining, crying, hating every moment of it, we shall emerge on the other side as better people

i am a thing doer and i pride myself on bettering my life as much as I'm able to. I'm exercising, training, cleaning, eating well, reading, learning, taking care of my looks, keeping up with my social life. what i just said is a lie, i only do like half of half of those things but i will keep trying instead of giving up

about me, im a big time people fan. i like humans in all their shapes and sizes. especially i like their most important invention: language. I'm a linguistics nerd, even if I've been focusing on other stuff for a while. another big hobby of mine is cooking. i am in love with food and you will also love my food. that is a threat. my favorite landscape feature is mountains, and my favorite water is snow

about you, what is your number one hobby? what thing did you do today? what is your favorite piece of furniture in your house?

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u/IReadNewsSometimes — 14 days ago

you can now change your legal name and sex marker!!!!!

aren't you happy??? you'll finally be seen as your real self

change your family name? oh don't be silly, how would we keep track of you then? it's not like it carries any gendered information anyway

what-what? are you saying you come from a country that genders its family names? and you're afraid for your safety in the face of other immigrants from that country who are often homophobic? awww, honey, but we don't do that here. nobody knows the gender of your family name and we will protect you from the bad guys :) plus, it's a real bureaucratic headache to change somebody's last name

well that's different obviously! marriage is mandated by God, so we have to do it

yeah i know you only wanna change one letter in your last name that isn't common here anyway but then all our databases will break and we will never be able to find you!

wait... are you sueing us to change your last name? oh, that can do. it's much less paperwork and headache :)

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u/IReadNewsSometimes — 20 days ago
▲ 14 r/Anki

what do you do when you accidentally see the answer before responding the card?

for example if you pressed "show answer" by mistake or the algorithm put the reverse card just behind this one

i usually just answer "good" or maybe "bad" depending on how confident i feel about my future self. if i don't feel confident at all i might just bury the card but I'm not sure it helps much

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u/IReadNewsSometimes — 1 month ago