u/Icy-Breadfruit1563

I unfortunately get hair all over my body. Like every inch. Shaving always results in razor bumps & ingrowns so I’ve resorted to waxing. However, it’s extremely hard for me to do my entire bum myself. It takes hours & I can’t even tell if I get it all. Then I ALWAYS get giant bumps a week or 2 after even if I do all the right after waxing routines. Nair is my primary go to bc it’s quick & easy & I know I get everything. But I still get the giant painful bumps. The process of it growing back hurts so bad sometimes that sitting is nearly impossible.
So my question is for other girls with hairy bums, WHAT DO YOU DO THAT WORKS???!!! I’m so defeated sometimes, I rarely remove the hair; maybe 3-5 times a year. But it’s summer & I want to go swimming & tanning. Luckily my husband never makes me feel bad about it he says he doesn’t care but I want to remove the hair for my own self esteem.
I’d have my husband try to wax me, but he works such long days I feel bad asking him to help & I love him but he’s really not good at these kinds of things lol

Every time I try to make a top it ends up looking weird on me or not fitting because of my chest size. I’m getting very discouraged trying to make wearables for myself bc of this. If any other big chested ladies have any recommendations for something that won’t end up completely frogged when I finish, PLEASE let me know!
I’d also like to add the only materials I have is my 5 mm hook & the standard loops & threads or I love this yarn yarn which I know can be part of the problem but I don’t have the resources to get other supplies & id like to use what I have on hand.
Thanks for any advice!

I’ve recently successfully found a mousse that works for my curls but im still struggling finding a hair oil that’s lightweight enough to not weigh down my curls, won’t make my hair look greasy, & won’t get sticky(?) by the end of the day. Does anyone use straight jojoba or argan oil?
Extra points if it’s affordable!

I’ve been hearing that my regular Gain has hormone disrupting qualities 💔 & im doing my best to slowly switch to a non toxic lifestyle.
I need a detergent that will *actually* clean my clothes still & hopefully leave a nice scent. Anyone have any they use that meets my needs?
I’d love any other laundry product recommendations as well!!