u/Icy-Childhood9761

As someone who has been both skinny and muscular I’ve never noticed any difference in the amount of attention or ease of dating after gaining muscle. Unless you are extremely malnourished it won’t help much. Most women just date guys in their social circle that they get along with. They don’t even notice or pay attention to buff dudes.

No guy struggles to date because of lack of muscle. Plus whatever is causing him to struggle will still be there after getting jacked. You are better off finding a good friend group/social circle or going to therapy.

All hot people know they’re hot. They are told they’re hot their entire lives. Even if they have low self esteem they would know. They would be treated better and flirted with way more than other people. There is no way they wouldn’t pick up on the differences.

Im a guy and I used to be kinda good looking when I was younger. Even being skinny and having acne I was still told many times that I was good looking. There is no way someone who is actually beautiful doesnt know and isn’t being hit on strictly because of that.