u/IcyAppointment2810

He's (41M) a co worker who I (30F) have flirted with in the past. Recently though, we're like in a cooling off stage. I notice he became more subtle when acknowledging me. He'd give me a little wave or a small smile or sometimes he'd stick his tongue out in a teasing way when he thinks no one is watching. I'm just wondering if our connection is lost or we'd be able to somehow revive it.

There's this guy at work. He's the first guy I have ever truly liked. For a few months, the vibe between has been friendly/flirty. We never did anything explicit. The most we did was holding hands one time and side hugs. I had inkling that maybe he has a gf but I was too afraid to ask him because that would confirm my fears. A few weeks ago, I saw his wallpaper on his phone accidentally when he was going to show me something. It was a picture of a woman with hearts on it. I felt my heart sink. He's been distant since last week. Now, I've been trying to pretend everything is okay but it fucking hurts so much. I feel pathetic and stupid for falling for a guy who only sees me as a friend.

Either romantic or friendly intentions.

I have a co-worker who I really like. He's the first guy in my 29 years that I can say I 100% like. First time ko to maramdaman na fully attracted ako sa isang person. I have little to no experience in dating so, I dont know how to flirt. I want to physically flirt with him without crossing a line in case na ayaw naman pala nya sa akin. So far, naakbayan na nya ko, nahawakan na nya kamay ko once pero di na nya ginawa ulit and kumapit na ko sa arms nya habang naglalakad kami. Lately tho, he seems distant. I dont know if I'm really bad at this na I somehow screwed up or manhid lang sya.

If ikaw yung guy, ano pa yung magpaparamdam sayo na gusto kita?

ie, plus sized or homely women

There's this guy (41M) at work who always teases me and singles me out. There'd be times when he would just be passing by where I am and he'll make a comment as he walks away. I didn't even see him notice or look at me. When we're in a group, he'd only specifically tease me. It would catch me off guard because it would come out of nowhere. I'd usually hit me or pinch him on his arm as retaliation. Sometimes, I get the feeling he only teases me to have an excuse for me to touch him.

There's this guy (41M) at work who always teases me and singles me out. There'd be times when he would just be passing by where I am and he'll make a comment as he walks away. I didn't even see him notice or look at me. When we're in a group, he'd only specifically tease me. It would catch me off guard because it would come out of nowhere. I'd usually hit me or pinch him on his arm as retaliation. Sometimes, I get the feeling he only teases me to have an excuse for me to touch him.

Would you let just any girl do this or sa girl lang na gusto nyo?

Specifically, a guy friend of mine would put his arm around my shoulder and pulls me in a little bit to his body as we walk side by side. I then instinctively would put my hand on his waist. This happened at least 5 times already. I wouldn't say we're very close friends more like co-worker/friend.

Is this just friendly behavior? Is this something you would do sa co worker mo?

Specifically, a guy friend of mine would put his arm around my shoulder and pulls me in a little bit to his body. I then instinctively would put my hand on his waist. This happened at least 5 times already. I wouldn't say we're very close friends more like co-worker/friend.

There's this guy at work who winked at me at least twice in the span of an hour. He passed by where I was standing at and he'd look straight at me then wink. We're casual friends and I wouldn't say we're very close but this guy teases me a lot and we've only known each other for 6 months.

I didn't know how to react at the time so I just stared at him. I think he thought I didn't see the first time he winked so, he did it again when he passed by where I was. Still I couldn't react. He never did it again after that though.