u/Ill_Corgi_9309

I want to dress sluttier. I know Halloween isn’t for like another month but I want something more than dressing up as some random superhero or a random movie character. I mean I’m not against it, I just want it to be cunt.
Girls costumes are so much better, guys costumes are always so baggy to fit everyone. I want something that screams I’m proud of the body I’ve sculpted and want to show it off (insert NSFW adjectives).
My boyfriends going as Deadpool which does kind of fit him. I’m really tempted to just buy a girls costume like Harley Quinn or poison ivy or something. There is no dress code obviously, it could be a little cold but that’s why I have a big man to keep me warm.
It’s my first Halloween where I can really just send it. Maybe like a nun or something? idk any ideas

I’m 24M and recently got asked out by a guy, 28M, like 2 weeks ago. It was my first gay relationship. We met at the gym, and he’s huge. I consider myself a big guy; I’m 6’1”, 205. He claims to be 6’5” and built like a logger, but he seems massive.
I find him super attractive, but I’m still not used to being touched on my thighs, butt, hips, or rubbing my stomach. It’s not that I don’t want to, but my first reaction is to always swat at his hands or turn around. I don’t want to do that. I want to be able to melt into him, but I can’t seem to.
He also—I don’t want to say emasculate me, but he “takes the man’s role.” He pays for everything. We’ve gone out like every other day since he’s asked me out. He bought me the new collection from the skincare company I use. I don’t know how to explain it. I just feel weird. Not to mention, I make more than him. I feel like maybe I should pay more.
I’m just so new to this. I have no idea what’s considered normal or “expected.” I really, really like him, and I really want this to work out. I’m definitely overthinking it, but I finally think I know what love feels like, and I don’t want to mess this up.
I know it sounds bad—we’ve been together only 2 weeks—but I like him way more than I’ve ever liked a girl. All my previous relationships pale in comparison to this one.

I’ve always questioned my sexuality, but have always been way too afraid to act on it. But yesterday, a guy, really out of the blue at the gym, was kind of hitting on me, and I wasn’t sure if he was just being nice or actually hitting on me.
I’ve changed my appearance to look a little more feminine. I paint my nails and shave my arms and legs, but he seemed to be doing more than just making small talk, and I reciprocated. He asked me out just to get lunch, and I’ve never been so nervous and excited for a first date.
But I have no idea what to expect. He’s been really nice and respectful. I’m sorry if that’s offensive, but there’s a stereotype that gay guys have a lot of sex, but he hasn’t done anything like that.
I know I should be worried just about the date, but I’m really worried if it goes well and we go back to one of our places. He’s kind of really big. I don’t know if he’s a top or bottom, but if I guessed, I’d assume he was a top, and I’ve never been penetrated.
But he’s so hot. Like, I’m actually attracted to him. I don’t know if this makes sense, but I’ve never felt like this with a girl. Like, I just want him to like me so bad, and I’m way overthinking this, but I really want this to go well.
I guess I’ll stop.

There are 3,500 known and documented species that show homosexual relations, MLM and WLW, and 450 or something that show pack animals socially transitioning. The most famous case being an orangutan that, inside the troop, took on what would be considered male traits/tendencies.
And if we look back throughout history, yes, some of it was for dominance or power, but a lot of these same-sex/trans relationships were actually loving and accepted. Greeks, Romans, the Japanese, Mayans, Aztecs—throw a dart at a random country, look at their history, and the majority were indifferent to people being themselves.
I forget who it was, but one society thought trans people were gods because they could embody both sexes.
How did it become taboo? How did there become so much hate for people doing what’s completely natural? And I hate, hate, hate the priests and pastors that say you just have to hide it and suppress the sin. Not to mention the cherry-picking of Bible verses.
I have yet to see any proof of a god, but there is an abundance of proof of these things being completely normal and natural. How has it come to this, where stuff that’s been accepted for thousands of years has now become an issue?

Why does it seem like the people in media legacy and social along with the legislatures that are the most outspoken anti-trans and or anti LGBQT+ are always exposed for either soliciting trans girls following trans models or influencers or paying for their only fans it’s a cliché but it seems the most anti trans influencers and legislatures almost always if not always are caught asking for nudes or trying to solicit them just an observation like Bill Berrien who went on podcasts saying how traditional he was and family values was found to have reallocated campaign funds to a trans adult film star who he repeatedly tried to contact and the rumors about Charlie Kirk being into trans pornography or Alex jones mercilessly hitting on Blaire white for a 4 hour show or nick Fuentes browser history being exposed where he was paying to chat with trans cam girls it seems like if you just look up any of these alt right anti trans people theirs a story and evidence

Edit: it’s become abundantly clear because I’m not perceived as female or have any experience dating as my desired gender that I've drastically misunderstood or misinterpreted the chat leaks I've not transitioned have been in one relationship with a man and a few with girls in high school and college but when nick or these other guys I use nick because his full chats have been leaked and he's in my opinion as alt right as it gets offers to fly her out bought her gifts sent her money on spending sprees was calling her baby beautiful and other terms of endearment I just in my understanding that's a lot of begging for someone you see as disgusting or gross when I think of a fetish I think of something you keep hidden but taking her on dates and flying her out she didn't go but offering seems like a lot to just want to get his rocks off I don't have experience being perceived as female so I can't understand it yet from that side which is why I want to hear the perspective but to me at least it seemed more then just fetishizing but I don't know sorry if my misinterpretation offended anyone it wasn't my intention maybe I shouldn’t have posted anything because of my lack of real world experience

I’m mid 20s and have always dated girls but I was never really attracted to them I’ve always been a little more feminine I’ve always shaved my legs/body hair and liked wearing clothes that showed off my thighs and booty recently I’ve been finding guys way more attractive then girls to the point that I’m starting to think about trying it with a guy but I don’t know if I’m actually gay or just appreciating how they look. How did you know.

One of my best friends from grade school is trans FTM. We went to Catholic school, and it was always pretty obvious that he was not a female. He transitioned young and looks every bit a man—dare I say, more manly than me.
Anyway, he’s coming up to New York, and I offered him and his girlfriend a place to stay at my apartment. When he got here, he wanted to be one of the guys. He totally passes and wouldn’t get clocked. He sounds manly, has body hair, and is honestly more of a man than me.
I work in finance, and we play golf every Friday after market close. He wants to come along. I have no problem with it, but my friends aren’t exactly the most open-minded. I don’t think they’re actually homophobic, racist, or anti-LGBTQIA+, but they do let it fly.
I don’t want him to feel uncomfortable for 18 holes or think lowly of me. He works as a park ranger, and that life is way different than the life of high finance. I don’t want him to think I’m an asshole or ashamed to be his friend because I’m absolutely not.
I was one of the first to know, and to me, he’s a man.
What’s the right thing to do?

I come from two lines of big families. My mom’s side had 4 kids, and my dad’s side had 8 siblings. Growing up, I knew I wanted to have a lot of kids (4–6), but I always saw myself as the mom.
For my 6th birthday, I got one of those dolls that makes noises and can cry and needs to be fed, but my parents would always say, “You’re going to be such a great dad,” and I always hated that because I saw myself as the mom.
Fast forward, the feelings of wanting to be female only became stronger, especially around 8th grade. I went to a Catholic school, so I was already setting myself up for failure, but we learned about starting families (we didn’t learn about reproduction) and the roles that we were expected to take as Catholics.
So we were given partners and given jobs based on our GPA, and when we started the simulation, we had to get a house, cars, insurance, all the good stuff. Anyway, when it came to childcare, our teacher looked over our finances and said it would make most sense for my wife (in the simulation) to stay home and me just be the sole provider.
I offered to stay instead, and she said, as a good Christian man, it was my duty to provide for my family while the mom took care of our children. Then it hit me: I’ll never be a mom.
Every time I thought of having kids, it was as their mom. I never imagined myself as a dad. I imagined being pregnant and having my husband doting on and comforting me like I’d seen my father do to my mother, and my husband buying me push presents, but that will never happen.
I want kids, but I just can’t imagine being a father. It just feels wrong. When I try to think about it, I just kind of subconsciously end up becoming a female.
And I really want kids that are mine, and everyone says adoption, but to me it’s not the same. I know it sounds really stupid, and I’m making an issue out of nothing, but I don’t know what the correct answer is.
I’m miserable as a guy and already kind of feminized myself. After high school, I had always shaved my legs and arms and all other body hair, but I started talking in a more feminine voice to the point I’ve started getting confused for a trans man on some instances.
And I have a girlfriend, but to say I’m attracted to women would be a stretch. I love her and think she’s the most amazing person in the world, but when I stare at her, I daydream of being her.
And it’s not fair to her or any kids that we may produce if I’m struggling mentally like this.
I hope someone else can understand.