u/Illustrious-Love-842

I have been deconstructing my faith since 18 (I’m now 20 now) and I NEVER told anyone of my family except one and my therapist. I don’t think that I can considered myself a Christian anymore because I no longer believe LGBTQ is bad, not all non religious people are bad, and I’m questioning why sexuality but I decided to go as unlabeled so I wouldn’t stress out anymore about it I’m straight or not. I’m not against religion, I was Christian since I was 11 and if I told my family that I don’t considered myself a Christian anymore, it would break their hearts, especially my grandparents and they’re good people (even though they voted for Trump and liked Charlie Kirk) I had a conversation about what if one of their family members is an atheist, my grandmother said something like they wouldn’t be out of the family unless they’re being toxic but still love them and let be a part of the family even though they’re going to hell…Does anyone either had that moment of realization or sadness they still think you’re going to hell for no longer being a Christian? That’s why I’m never gonna tell them that….

I have been deconstructing my faith since 18 (I’m now 20 now) and I NEVER told anyone of my family except one and my therapist. I don’t think that I can considered myself a Christian anymore because I no longer believe LGBTQ is bad, not all non religious people are bad, and I’m questioning why sexuality but I decided to go as unlabeled so I wouldn’t stress out anymore about it I’m straight or not. I’m not against religion, I was Christian since I was 11 and if I told my family that I don’t considered myself a Christian anymore, it would break their hearts, especially my grandparents and they’re good people (even though they voted for Trump and liked Charlie Kirk) I had a conversation about what if one of their family members is an atheist, my grandmother said something like they wouldn’t be out of the family unless they’re being toxic but still love them and let be a part of the family even though they’re going to hell…Does anyone either had that moment of realization or sadness they still think you’re going to hell for no longer being a Christian? That’s why I’m never gonna tell them that….

I was raised in conservative Christianity where I had to cover up but I was allowed to wear pants and shorts but not short shorts. Now I’m an adult, I want to explore different types of fashion Eder what I like. I noticed how women don’t like it when some wear skimpy clothes or judge them for it but it doesn’t bother me if they choose to wear that. So, am I a tramp because I wanted to wear that stuff especially when it’s hot or for certain occasions?