u/IllustriousIssue9802

my bf[17M] has wanted me [17F]for over a year, started dating two months ago and when we are together in real life everything's totally amazing but when we text, it feels like he doesn't wanna talk to me much. i know its silly and might seem immature but consistency is key to me. he's a sweet guy though. also i've never noticed any girls in his phone, i have his password and could go through his phone if i wanted although i dont, i trust him it just bothers me a lot

hi!! i've recently started being sexually active w my first ever boyfriend who has dated one girl before me (they were together for 2 years and she was his first everything. they had sex really often and basically tried out everything together. he makes it clear he loves me and finds me beautiful, he's a very nice guy. my biggest issue is retroactive jealousy. i constantly feel like she was better than me at everything even tho she was toxic and i always think about the way he treated her like hm, what if he loved her more? i cant stop thinking about it and it ruins basically every interaction we have together whether its cuddling, laughing or star gazing.
my second issue is that i am so insecure about the way i look down there i genuinely cannot let him see me in daylight, he thinks im insecure about my chest or stomach but its my vulva, i have an outie and i always wondered if he finds it gross, especially under normal lighting. i can see it kind of bothers him because we've known each other for so long and he really tries his best to make me feel comfortable but to me it looks so disgusting from the front, i cant let him see me also it makes me think of his ex, what if she had the most perfect innie and now he's like dang that was much better than this

im a F/18 that has recently started being sexually active but ive been feeling this way for longer, me and my bf M/18 started dating almost 2 months ago (knew each other for 2 years, were best friends)
he dated his ex for 2 years, she wasnt the nicest person from what ive heard but she was his first love, his first everything. they had sex really often and tried out basically everything together, every fantasy and kink possible and im assuming he enjoyed all of it pretty well.
he's my first everything and im not used to this stuff, he tells me im doing good job and he's super respectful and makes me feel comfortable but i just cant help my mind, i always assume he occasionally thinks she was better at this and that and he might miss the sex with her, i try my best to ignore it when things go right but then one embarrassing thing happens cuz im not skilled and i automatically switch to this insecure loser who only thinks of his ex and it just ruins the mood, he told me i shouldn't be insecure about this and that he would never compare me to her but who knows? he could be doing it subconsciously