u/Imaginary-Werewolf33

Looking for a tall & masculine man 33, CA

Miss having sex, its been a looooooooong time

Since having our baby, my relationship with my husband feels like it quietly switched into a totally different version… and not the romantic upgrade kind.
He works about 50 hours a week, and when he’s home he’s usually still on his laptop. So it often feels like I’m running the house and taking care of the baby solo while he’s mentally still at work.
We barely talk these days, there’s no real intimacy anymore, and our sex life basically disappeared somewhere along the way. It didn’t even feel like a “moment,” it just slowly faded out.
What’s hardest is that I don’t really feel like he’s fully stepping into fatherhood either. I feel a bit like I’m doing this whole new life alone while still technically being married.
And now I’m honestly confused… I don’t know if I’m burnt out, emotionally checked out, or if this is just what happens after having a baby and I’m adjusting badly.
Has anyone else gone through this kind of shift after having a baby? Did it get better, or did you have to actively rebuild everything?