u/Immediate_Ebb7504

I’m pretty sure my brother somehow accessed my WhatsApp and read private chats between me and my friend that had personal secrets and embarrassing stuff. There’s no way he could’ve known those things otherwise.

After realizing that, I panicked and instantly deleted my WhatsApp account because I got scared he might also be listening to my normal phone calls somehow.

Now I’m trying to figure out what I should do next.

How do I properly secure my phone and make sure this doesn’t happen again?he accessed my email toooo (lodu)😭

Since I started preparing for Joint Entrance Examination, life has changed a lot. My whole routine became coaching, studies, lectures, and trying to keep up with everything. In all this, I slowly lost contact with almost all my friends. At first I thought it was normal and that things would get better later, but now it just feels lonely.

Recently, I had a fight with someone I considered a close friend. During the argument, they said something that’s stuck in my head since then..... “tumhara kabhi koi dost nahi banega.” Maybe they said it in anger, but it genuinely hurt. I keep overthinking whether they were right.

I’m trying to focus on studies, but sometimes this loneliness gets really heavy. I’m not asking for attention or anything, I just miss having someone to talk to without feeling judged. One genuine frnd ,someone who actually stays feels like too much to ask these days.

Has anyone else gone through this during exam prep? How did you handle feeling this disconnected from everyone?

​

My bf barely talks to me the whole day. We literally talk for like 4–5 minutes max, and then at night he says he’s sleepy and goes to sleep. I’ve explained so many times that being ignored triggers my overthinking badly, but the same thing keeps happening again and again.

Whenever I confront him, he says he was busy and didn’t do it intentionally. I understand people get busy, but a simple “I’ll talk later” literally takes 5 seconds.

Because of this, my anger issues and overthinking get worse and our fights become huge. Then I end up feeling guilty too.

At this point I genuinely can’t tell if I’m overreacting or just asking for bare minimum communication in a relationship.