I find it funny that others are willing to steal my words, work, personality, etc. But if I talk about my experiences, they have to invalidate me and claim I am “lying”. They will deny your entire reality even with receipts, then except you to obey them and believe everything they say.
The delusional double standard that it is socially acceptable for them to use us as receptacles for their childish rage. But if I am not smiling or comforting them 24/7, I am seen as a threat. These abusers need us to comfort them, so they can feel comfortable continuing to abuse us.
More angry at myself for thinking they can act like normal people.
They really do not have anything to be mad about. Their lack of communication with each other is a choice. They do not see us as people and I have been talked to like a dog. Their lack of self regulation, their abusive behavior, them using us as rage garbage cans is a choice.
So tired of their control issues. Needing to control us, choosing not to restrain themselves.
Oh but defending yourself against violence from a white is "wroooooong" and makes you "irrational".
That is all. Ty for reading my rant. Peace to the non-colonists here.
Can never go outside and have a normal day. The colonists have to force themselves into my space constantly. Minority person minding their own business? They see it as an invitation to bother you.
Rushing or micromanaging me, making passive aggressive comments, the creepy smirk, glaring at you until you look at them, their "subtle putdowns", acting like you are invisible, rushing to run you over with a car while you cross the street on foot, profiling, following me around a store, acting like I am dangerous (when they are dangerous).
Ah yes...the "rational", "intelligent", "logical" Euro. So logical, most of them tantrum, sigh loudly, are passive aggressive, violent (emotionally or physically), entitled, expect us to be servants while they degrade us. Stealing from us and accusing us of doing it.
I stayed home this past weekend just to relax but I realize how much my nervous system needs to be...away from them. Cannot even be on my own social media without them tone policing me on topics that do not concern them.
They push us out of everywhere (and our own spaces) but make a point to invade our space to mess with us. If they hate us so much, they should go elsewhere. Or go back to Europe. They do love using "go back to your own country".
I do not bother them, they bother me. Being "civil" with them is letting them hit you while they face no consequences. I avoid them but they do not leave me alone.
Like not wanting to share your things or space.
I do not know the exact name for it.
Around my family, I never had anything for myself. I was forced to "share" everything. My things were treated like everyone else's things. For them, cousins, other relatives, strangers. Did not have much privacy, either.
Everything for others, nothing for me.
If I said anything, it was ignored. They would justify stealing my clothes, belongings, words, personal space. This is a frustration that I still deal with.
Now, I prefer my own space. I try to be respectful of other people's things and space. I need a lot of alone time. This is not really "sharing" because it was never consensual. I think my mother forced me to normalize getting robbed, then pushing me to believe there was nothing I can do about it.
Dysfunctional people usually get mad when I am frustrated with their behavior. Or if I say no. They act like they are getting beat.
I was always called "selfish" for not letting others have access to what was/is mine. Cannot be selfish when you were never given room to have a self.
This shithole is not my home. The only reason I am here is because these Eurotrash morons destabilize entire countries.
"If you hate it here, you should go back!!!". They think they are smart when they say this. They are not. Go back to what?
Euros/colonists destroy everything and leave nothing behind. There is nothing to go back to. Now I am stuck here while my heart bleeds for my people back home. This is not home. I am just dissociating until I can go back.
Surrounded by these stupid predators who get off on non-white pain. Their political ideologies do not matter because they are the same usually. The biggest insult is how they are genuinely all morons and the only reason they "conquer" anything is because they act like >!r*pists!< with no consideration for others. The rest of us know how to act like people.
White leftists are still worthless, by the way. Pretending to care about issues just for the optics, never planning on doing anything real. Look at all their yard signs and flags. They change with each month. These pride flags will go away after this month. Then they go back to bullying their own white gay and trans children, acquaintances, etc.
These colonists are not strong. Their entire history is cowardice, theft, sneaking around, wiping out entire populations with their diseases. They still smell like wet dog. You get no privacy, no personal space, no basic human decency. They treat you like an animal, then when you react in a way they dislike, they justify hurting you more. Whiteness is nothing but abuser mentality. Idiots who succeeded upward by cutting in front of everyone.
They act like their lives are so hard...So fragile. No one has it worse than them, apparently. They get mad if you insinuate otherwise.
Whites commit actual human rights violations but explode if you make...a typo...No, no just the rich ones, not just p*lice. The normal ones. Young, old. It does not matter.
When I stopped being so "respectful", I became the "problem" very quickly. Work, social situations, etc. Being tolerant only benefited them at the expense of...me. All of my interactions with them worked because of me. Even now, they still salivate over slave and non-white labor. Emotional labor included.
Their reactions to me show that they get upset when I see myself as anything other than an object. They get mad when they have to treat you like a person. I can angry at the violation of my humanity. They want you to be an accomplice in your own destruction.
They can barely hide it, too. It pains them to treat me like a person. I am often demonized or erased or robbed. The human decency I get comes from my own people or other non-white people.
I want to be left alone because this group is such an invasive species. Too stupid too know just how stupid they are. I am angry all the time and that is not me. Not to sound patronizing, my heart breaks for other non-white people because we should have more here but it is robbed from us.
I like most people, actually. Life is too short to tolerate abusive and dysfunctional people. I would rather be alone.
They act more offended that you protected yourself or refuse to tolerate them...than they do about having abused you.
Had a situation of having my words, personality, work stolen. When I got upset, this person played victim, denied everything, threw a tantrum, smeared me to anyone who would listen.
Why do they think they are the victim while they abuse you?
Why is your getting fed up a personal attack?
They really just want you to stand there and get attacked?
Anyone who enables them is dumber than the abusers themselves because they go along with it blindly.
Noticing a recent trend here of "white men are not as bad". I feel like the accounts making posts like this are women. White women are dangerous to non-white women. This is true.
The reality is white men dehumanize non-white men. They are “nicer” to women…because they want to sleep with you. Or do not see you as a threat. Imagine those horror stories here of white women abusing non-white women. We have to deal with that on our side.
If we react or defend ourselves, we get blamed with everything. Or locked up.
I will not sit here and support white women just because they do not target me as much as white men. They still do target me, though. None of this is me mansplaining. I do not mean it to come off that way. Just because a white man is not attacking you (yet) does not mean they are your ally. They have years of their lives to spend waiting around hoping it will get in your pants.
If you are not white/Euro, white men or women are not your allies.
Hi everyone, I think I have to stay inside more from now on.
Whenever I go out, something happens. These colonists always have to get in my space or micromanage me or treat me like an animal. I am exhausted. I have been exhausted for a while. I had someone gatekeep my culture yesterday while I was out. They said I am “not” my background because I live in the US currently. As if my entire life and culture are erased.
Of course, this person spoke over/"for" me and invalidated my life experience.
Colonists do it all the time. They erase you. Then they TELL who you "are". CAUCASITY. They take everything from you. Personhood, peace of mind, your space, your CULTURE. Staying inside because I am not trying to get in a fight with these DARVO deviants. They start problems but I become the "villain" somehow for being uncomfortable.
Double standard of them micromanaging your existence, treating you like a wild animal. Then if I walk down a hallway, they start getting red faced and wide eyed.
Public spaces are not safe, either. All they understand is theft, violence, denial.
EDIT: This has nothing to do with my post. I was getting some things from the store and heard a white man tell a white cashier "If I got mad at every microaggression, I would be mad all the time". What microaggressions are they dealing with? Always commenting on things they cannot understand.
Not counting here. This is where I come to vent. Also people venting about their trauma in a support sub does not mean “victim mentality”. People get mad at you for existing without knowing you or knowing what they are mad about. Usually abusive types are the ones playing victim the loudest anyway.
Abusers and entitled types really get mad and expect you to say “sorry for the inconvenience, please continue violating my human rights”.
Idiots, honestly.
I really dislike it when whites say “thank you” when you talk or post about your culture online (not talking about here).
Who asked you??? I am doing it to raise awareness for my people and bring them together. Then whites show up and make it about them.
“Thank you for talking about XYZ” from whites to me sounds like “Thank you for doing the labor so I do not have to, then I can pretend I did something by liking a social media post”.
Leftist and guilt ridden whites are so irritating. I would rather deal with the vocal hateful ones you can see clearly. Having no allies is better than white “allies”. So much noise for nothing.
In my experience, they manage to erase your culture and separate you from it but feel entitled to take over your spaces. Acknowledging your culture means seeing you as a human and having to make some real changes.
I was reading an older post a few days ago but forgot to bookmark it.
There was a comment that caught my eye. Someone commented talking about a white male colleague. The colleague mentioned not wanting to rock the boat because being a white male means being set for life (something about privilege). There was also something about how whites fetishize POC like we are some kind of an escape from their whiteness.
Sorry if this is vague but the comment made good points about how backwards their mentality is. I would appreciate any help.
(It was from a year or so ago, I think)
These three things whites whine about:
Honourable mention: They dislike being disliked or rejected by the same people they dehumanize. They hate as a hobby, I avoid them to stay healthy. Their double standards...Save me and all non-whites from these narcissistic fools.
No group or culture is perfect. Hate that I feel the need to preface like this.
I have had too many experiences with whites where they steal anything that is not nailed down: actual items, your work, personality, words, ideas, people, languages, cultures. Then they expect you to erase yourself once they steal everything. Too many of them will steal and dehumanize but are too cowardly to get their hands dirty.
Like your/my existing is "inconvenient" for them or reminds them of their theft. I am tired of them treating everyone and everything like an object or loose end. They choose to view non-whites as objects to justify all the de*ath and theft.
Every civilization could face others head on. Euros had/have to sneak around and steal and spread their diseases and are constantly indirect.
Seeing them get interested in my culture is disgusting, especially how they start lecturing me on it and my language. I have been scolded by whites who want to be right more times than I can count. They hate you being around them but will never leave you alone.
Non-whites respect other cultures. Or at least try not to destroy them. Whites do not respect, they appropriate and erase everything else.
May the Euros not learn your culture exists, friends.
(Someone made a post here about dealing with whites at work and it made me think of how many times they have stolen from me in work or social situations. I do not even have to talk to them. They will watch you and take things from you while making you aware of it. Another part of their narcissism. They need the attention and think others are the same way. Needing validation from the groups they abuse.)
Knowing from personal experience, being the better person sometimes will cause health problems because it fools your brain into thinking you are powerless and cannot fight back.
Not all abusers just disappear when you leave. Some of them will keep forcing themselves into your world and keeping tabs on you online or irl for years. A lot of people do not understand this.
They do not like taking their own medicine, though. "Brave" until you start to treat them like they treat you and others.
>!(No, this post is not implying m*rder.)!<
In most of my interactions with them, they act like I am the “threat” because they are usually projecting what they are onto me.
They play victim so much acting like they have to protest your existence.
I am just standing here existing and they have to make an issue about it.
At work, social situations, even in my neighborhood.
All I did was leave so I would stop being abused and taken advantage of. Why do abusive/manipulative types act like you leaving is worse than their abuse? They never really go away, either.
Enablers protect abusers. They all treat me like property or a vending machine that stopped working.
This has happened with strangers and acquaintances, as well. People who have no right to feel that entitled to any access. They will justify entire attacks on your life just because you rejected them or did not let yourself get exploited.
Edit: There was probably a better way to word all of this but I cannot think of it now.
This will never happen because that will mean humanizing people who are not white. They do not want to do that.
There are research studies done showing that whites do not see minorities as people while walking on the sidewalk. They do not think they should move out of the way for what they view on the level of a cardboard box.
The men or women, it does not matter. They feel too comfortable stealing, treating you like an object, smearing, harassing, getting in your space. Somehow, getting mad or pushing back or defending myself or even leaving is seen as a problem.
You cannot "out of sight out of mind" whites because they make it their mission to bother minorities.
It does not help when we are assumed to be wrong or dangerous, especially when the perpetrator is white.
I know I can move on easily. I already know how to self regulate. The issue is how they keep showing up. Your life is not free once you leave. Maybe for a couple months, I have some peace. Then they remind you they exist and keep bothering you before disappearing again.
With narcissists, out of sight out of mind is pointless.
Showing up where I live. Contacting me from fake accounts. Contacting my work. Trying to get me to react so they can play victim and I get in trouble.
I noticed how they abuse you, get you to react, then play victim so you get shamed, arrested, d*e.
Moving on is easy when they are gone forever. They do not leave, at least not in my case. Not all narcissists had a "bad childhood" or were abused at all. Some of them are lifelong abusers. Their enablers get out of their way and let the rest of us suffer.
Just needed to talk about this.
Edit: Not going into too much detail because it is hard for me to discuss but also I do not want to give specific information away.