I’m from the UK (33) Looking for people to play with, recently had a 7 year relationship end which I gave up all my friendships for, so coming back to league I don’t have anybody to play with.
Ideally looking for a group of people rather than individuals. Found my old best friend via this reddit so here is hoping for future success!
I just feel so underwhelmed with what we have done in the transfer market. I was kind of the same last year.
I liked the Barry and Dibling signing(felt over priced though) I did not mind KDH, Grealish made no sense considering the KDH and Dibling signing.
This year I liked Hackney, we had to make the Rohl signing, Norgaard I don’t like at all.
I get we need options on the midfield but we have Garner who will start, KDH who will start, Hackney should start but I think Norgaard will. Alacaraz who needs shifting Rohl, and Tim.
We need a new RB I’m sick of us putting none rbs in RB. It’s been the same issue for years and we have never solved it.
We need a new LB. Our CBs are aging out both 33 turning 34 this year (Tarky and Keane) Branthwaite who has struggled with injury.
I don’t know I just feel like we have not really got the positioned sorted I felt where our most vital and yeah. I’m just not feeling it so far.
So I am looking for people to play with.
I play arena and ranked. But me and my fiancée also play aram together (she doesn’t like ranked or arena)
So looking for people/person who is happy to do arams with us both or just arena or ranked.
We haven’t played in awhile stopped around 3 years ago (fun fact we met on league!) and recently got back into it together.
Has anybody else had any warranty issues with their shoes. Bought the Federer pro 3. Had then less than a week and the material at the front has started like cracking, like you can fit your fingernail into the crack, other side is starting to crack also. Only play indoors so bit mad!
Expected better quality than the laminate type material at the front starting to crack after 1 use.
So normally I am a pretty relaxed calm person. It takes a lot for me to get frustrated etc.
Moved away from my family 4 years ago to move in with my partner, it’s tough, barely speak to my family, they completely stopped bothering. I constantly made efforts to visit them and message them, slowly but surely 1 by 1, effort disappeared, no visits, no messages nothing. It’s been awhile.
I had surgery, they didn’t bother
I got engaged, didn’t bother
My work was always great, I was constantly busy but every now and again I would get 5 minutes to myself.
My team disbanded, we relocated office to which I could no longer attend, they made me a homeworker.
My partner wanted a dog I didn’t. So we got a dog as she was going to be working from home. She lasted 2 weeks and went back to office. No big deal we live in small village so I would take the dog down to the local park or along our river etc on my lunch breaks in the car. Then she relocated and takes the car every day.
My dog hates walks, she actively hides if you pull her lead out. But loves the park and river etc. it takes my entire lunch just to try and get her ready for a walk.
My workload has drastically increased to the point I’m working longer hours than my contract just to stay a float. I haven’t had a 1 to 1 with my team manager in 2 years. I’ve never been invited to a team meeting. I haven’t never spoke to 95% of my team. The last time I heard from my manager was around 8 months ago when I came back from surgery. No return to work, no mention of adjustments nothing.
This has had a knock on effect. When I comes to delegation of duties in our house it goes as follows;
- I pay all the bills
- I do all the shopping
- I do all the cleaning
- I do all the maintenance
- I walk and look after the dog
- I sort all our contracts out
Basically everything except one thing
My partner does the cooking.
This wasn’t a massive deal, but we got a dog, I got busy at work.
I try to talk to her, tell her I’m overloading and struggling. She cries and I end up comforting her, nothing changes.
I’m at breaking point, but there is nobody to talk to. She just cries, I don’t know anybody up here, my family are MIA.
I just needed to get this off my chest, because if I didn’t I actually think I would have a mental breakdown.
Oh and my health isn’t great. My body is literally falling apart, I have arthritis in both feet, knees, back and right hand.
But yeah. Vent over.
It’s okay to talk guys.