Like sometimes I’m just happy I’ll die. Jannat main jaoon aur apni sari khwahishat poori karoon.
“Oohh what makes u think you’ll make it there in the first place🤡🤡🤓” stfu btch I’m trying the best I can and Allah se best umeed rakhte
For clarity, I’m not suicidal. Bas wese hi kabhi kabhar bore ho jata from this life and its constant tests and hardships.
20M here. As someone who wants to be with a person with a clean past, as I myself am(or at least consider myself and try to be) religious and saving myself for my future spouse, I kind of disagree. Realistically, most become be financialy stable and on their feet by their late 20s(which I think is a bit late to get married).
Unfortunately, it's becoming increasingly difficult to find people with clean pasts in this day and age(or is it? Correct me if I'm wrong plz). I'm not saying that good and "pure" people don't exist now, it's just more rare to find them(even more for someone like me who has literally zero interaction with the opposite gender)(how do you even know if someone is good or not lol but that's another topic). You might wonder why I don't have any female friends, well it's because I don't really have a reason to befriend them(and it circles back to being religious too ig).
People want to get married when they achieve their goals and become the best version of themselves. Why can't we be with someone who we can grow together with?
After you become self sufficient, say you have a respected job, that may partly be the reason someone gets together with you. Maybe what I'm trying to say is what if they're a gold digger and chose you for your status. As one can easily lie to meet your preferences and expectations. This is one of the reasons why I think growing together is beautiful as one won't choose you for who you've become, but will be there for you during the journey too.
I think it boils down to financial issues in the end. How will you support your partner when you're not even able to earn for yourself?
Chalain daikhte hain ab 2nd main kia hota