u/Independent-Object40

It’s a very long story and if there’s enough interest, I might do a full story time later but daaaannggggg it’s realllyyy tough for me to forgive this one Sag for what she did years ago. Like it’s literally been several years and even though I go through long times of not thinking about her or just feeling neutral about the whole thing bc I don’t see her anymore, there are times like this when I get pissed all over again. I read about Sags recently bc I am on and off about believing astrology and basically what I learned is that they’re so stubborn they will NEVER apologize. In our particular situation, it said she will likely never say sorry to me bc that would be the ultimate loss and humiliation for her, the full admission of her guilt and she can’t handle it. Sags can’t handle that. And my mom is a Sag and that lady will never apologize so I can definitely believe it.

Is it just me or is it hard to forgive them? Is it just my love language that needs an apology in order to forgive?

I want to go back to being apathetic toward the thought of her, just currently in a phase of being angry.

My sister, cousin, and myself realized that the most recent exes of the men in our life have a birthday of Dec 16. Is that a coincidence?

My ex’s new lady’s birthday is the same day of my wedding anniversary.

And my husband’s ex who tried to meddle in our wedding is a Sagittarius just like my mom. She’s refused to apologize for her actions, similar to my mom having a hard time taking accountability for hers. Is there some correlation there, a major life lesson on healing a mother wound or forgiving people even when they don’t apologize?

Obviously i know forgiveness is good for the self and hatred is drinking poison expecting the other person to die. I get all that and have forgiven 98% of everything.

I’m just wondering if there are some correlations here with everything I mentioned

I know the memes in here say “once we’re done, we are DONE” but I know a Sag who chased after her engaged ex (Aries) a couple weeks after he proposed to tell him she was still in love with him. This is three years after they broke up and she told him she never loved him. He didn’t take her back and she married a Taurus later on in a tiny ceremony during the pandemic. The Taurus liked her a LOT but was also put off by the fact she was “dirty” for not having been a virgin when they married like he was. So whether it lasts or not because of that mindset is up for debate.

But the fact that she chased after an ex years after a breakup makes me wonder if Phantom Ex Syndrome is real. Fantasizing about an ex even when in a relationship?

Is the relationship doomed from the start or can a marriage last?

Female Sag slept with one Aries man before marrying the Taurus. Taurus male was bothered by the fact that she had a higher body count, as he was a virgin.