u/Individual_Band_6655

An Ex-Muslim Atheist M24 living and working in Delhi originally from Bihar looking for an Ex-Muslim Atheist F for marriage. If you're plus, minus few years from my age or of same age, that'd be better.

I'm working in IT sector. Looking for a working woman.

I want to have kids or adopt, only after if we're able to leave India otherwise I don't want kids in this hateful environment in India because I don't want them to suffer.

My height is about 5ft 5 inch. So looking for a woman accordingly in the suitable height range.

Looks wise I'm looking for natural, not makeup slop. Who doesn't wear revealing clothes publicly. My skin color is fairish-wheatish. I'm looking for a woman with lightish skin color.

I have good moral character and I want them in my significant other.

My salary is not high as of now so I'm working hard to increase my salary. So it'd be better if we keep our lifestyle accordingly and live a peaceful and happy life.

I'm writing everything completely raw because I prefer honest, not hiding anything, and clear communication.

I describe myself as a kind hearted and peaceful man who want to live a peaceful life with a kind hearted wife and kids (if we have). I'm not very interested in societal or family or relatives drama. Mental peace and a satisfactory and happy life. I'm looking for a woman of same kind who doesn't care about what society thinks and says, or what relatives think and say, and is focused on own mental peace, wellbeing and happiness and her immediate family.

Well, at the last I would say you can talk to me directly and see if we're compatible or not. If we're compatible then nothing could be better than that but if we're not compatible but know someone who might be compatible for you or me so we can introduce each other. So basically networking thing. This is also important.

As exmuslim atheists are very small minority among minorities in India so I'll not delete this post. So if you see this post even after a very long time it means I'm still looking. So you can reach out to me in my DM as I'm not going to engage in comment section because that'd not be appropriate.

I don't check posts here often so if you see my post and you're interested then you can ping me in my DM.

We've left Islam but we still have Muslim identity. Through our name people assume that we're Muslim. We're not going to tell everyone one by one that we're atheist because that'll probably create bigger problems.

Radical Hindutva people use derogatory terms and generalize all Muslims. I mean they're a small minority but some of them are extremely vocal in derogatory things and many of them do such things behind the back.

People assume that we oppose PM Modi and BJP.

What's your thoughts on this and related things?

Edit:

Adding few more thoughts.

Most of the Hindus support Modi and BJP and that's how they win election after election. I mean the distance between Hindus and Muslims will only increase if most of the Hindus keep supporting BJP and most of the Muslims keep supporting the party which is in direct opposition to BJP. This will only help BJP as they'll easily win if 80% Hindus votes are polarised in comparison to 14% Muslims votes. So BJP wants more polarisation.

Should Muslims depolarise themselves as polarisation of 14% Muslims votes has counter effect of polarization of 80% Hindus votes?

Should Muslims vote on healthcare, education, infrastructure, development, employment, electricity, clean water, clean air, road, public transportation, women's safety, crime, inflation, national (internal and border) security, and other essential utilities instead of voting as a group to defeat BJP?

I mean Muslims want Hindus to vote on above issues instead of Hindutva but they themselves don't vote on these issues. Muslims have the highest stake in secularism in India so they must be secular first before expecting secularism from others.

Instead of always in opposition to Modi and BJP, support and oppose the policies individually rather than blanket opposition to Modi and BJP and blanket support to those who are in direct opposition to them. By doing this, Muslims will be seen as true followers of secularism and their allies will increase and opponents will decrease.

By this distance between Hindus and Muslims will decrease instead of increasing. This is the solution I keep in front of you all of the problem statement which I mentioned in the beginning.

I mean I don't want Muslims to be in forever opposition (anti-establishment) to one of the biggest political party in everything in India because this hurts Muslims.

An Ex-Muslim Atheist M24 living in Delhi due to job originally from Bihar looking for an Ex-Muslim Atheist F for marriage 2-3 years down the line.

Working in IT sector. Looking for a working woman preferably in teaching sector in 11th-12th or competitive exams or degree or diploma college. Preferably if teaching Mathematics or Physics.

As IT sector is hectic or competitive job so I'm looking for a woman who doesn't have more hectic job than me.

Kids need parents time. So teaching job for one of the parents would be suitable.

Kids learn from parents. So it's necessary that we teach them good values. We'll try to take care of my parents and your parents so that our kids will take care of us when we need them in old age.

We'll live in a neutral place so that neither my parents nor your parents feel as guests when they visit us.

Currently I live with my elder brother's family in Delhi as it's more suitable than other options as a bachelor. After marriage we won't live with them.

Though I don't believe in these things but in marriage people check this so I'm from Shaikh community. My family members marry only in Shaikh and Syed communities so there is a family and societal pressure. My family is Hanafi. There isn't any problem of Deobandi-Barelvi as my family is a mixed family.

My family is not overly religious but they're not completely irreligious either.

My height is about 5ft 5 inch. So looking for a woman accordingly in the suitable height range.

Looks wise I'm looking for natural, not makeup slop. Who doesn't wear revealing clothes. My skin color is fairish-wheatish. I'm looking for a woman with lightish skin color as I don't feel attracted to dark skin. So what's the point of marriage if I'm not attracted to you.

Have good moral character and doesn't follow not so good things which happen in the broad society just because their peers are doing it.

My salary is not high as of now so I'm working hard to increase my salary. So it'd be better if we keep our lifestyle accordingly so that we don't have to ask for money from anyone or go bankrupt and can have peaceful life after retirement.

I've written everything completely raw because I believe in clear communication.

As exmuslim atheists are very small minority among minorities in India so I'll not delete this post. So if you see this post even after a very long time it means I'm still looking. So you can reach out to me in my DM as I'm not going to engage in comment section because that'd not be appropriate.

Suggest a Neckband with good mic which works in noisy environments so that my voice to the other person is clearly audible.

I read somewhere that neckband has better mic than earbud and no fear of accidentally dropping so I'm preferring it.

It should work with phone and pc both.

Suggest a Neckband with good mic which works in noisy environments so that my voice to the other person is clearly audible.

I read somewhere that neckband has better mic than earbud and no fear of accidentally dropping so I'm preferring it.

It should work with phone and pc both.

1. Good mic so that it can be used in noisy environments.

2. Can connect with Android, Windows, Linux.