u/Individual_Bed5197

My boyfriend doesn't have sex with me no matter what i do

We've only been together a little over a year. It's only my second serious relationship and my last one was abusive .

He's 33 about to 34 and I just turned 28. I have higher sex drive than him but I feel like he should still do more.

I tried wearing lingerie...offering blowjobs and things like that. He always just moves my hands away when I try to touch him and when i ask him he just says he's not in the mood.

I tried to assume he wasn't attracted to me but he always touches my butt,my breasts and grinds on me. I can feel his boner when he does that. And one time during his sleep,he put his d\*ck inside of my butt and was thrusting.

I thought about trying my lingerie again but I dont have much money and I dont want to waste it just to disappointed.

I should almost mention that im autistic and dont know much about flirting or teasing. And communication is frustrating me because he says he'll try to do better but it doesn't happen.

I dont want to break up with him because I love him but I also want to have sex. I dont know what to do.

Can i have advice from people who maybe have faced similar issues?

We've only been together a little over a year. It's only my second serious relationship and my last one was abusive .

He's 33 about to 34 and I just turned 28. I have higher sex drive than him but I feel like he should still do more.

I tried wearing lingerie...offering blowjobs and things like that. He always just moves my hands away when I try to touch him and when i ask him he just says he's not in the mood.

I tried to assume he wasn't attracted to me but he always touches my butt,my breasts and grinds on me. I can feel his boner when he does that. And one time during his sleep,he put his d*ck inside of my butt and was thrusting.

I thought about trying my lingerie again but I dont have much money and I dont want to waste it just to disappointed.

I should almost mention that im autistic and dont know much about flirting or teasing. And communication is frustrating me because he says he'll try to do better but it doesn't happen.

I dont want to break up with him because I love him but I also want to have sex. I dont know what to do.

Can i have advice from people who maybe have faced similar issues?

I was getting dressed for a festival and I had a crop top on...I asked her if my stomach looked big. I didnt ask about my hips. She said "No but your hips look pudgy." Im really sensitive about that and have had eating disorder in the past so I got upset. And I told her "at least I can see my hips,yours are covered in fat"