Where to go
Life sometimes becomes strangely difficult perhaps because of the people in whom we place our hopes. Our mood and energy often change depending on the way they treat us. I do not hate people yet dealing with them can feel deeply exhausting. I struggle to tolerate certain actions and even when something hurts me I rarely confront the person directly. Instead I carry the conflict silently within myself.
What I cannot stand are people who lack the courage to face things honestly and clearly choosing instead vague hints and contradictory behavior that leave others trapped in confusion and doubt. If someone constantly changes the way they treat others according to their mood swings then it is better for them to keep their distance. I am not free from suffering myself and perhaps I struggle as much as anyone else but I choose to carry my problems quietly without turning them into a burden for others.
If you hate someone, don't contact them or talk about them behind their back.If you love someone, go and tell them directly. If you're too weak to admit it, quietly withdraw without giving subtle hints that might confuse the other person. If you want to be friends with someone, take the initiative. And if you have a problem with someone, resolve it directly between you.
Life is too short to spend it blaming others,