u/Individual_Kiwi_7715

Where to go

Life sometimes becomes strangely difficult perhaps because of the people in whom we place our hopes. Our mood and energy often change depending on the way they treat us. I do not hate people yet dealing with them can feel deeply exhausting. I struggle to tolerate certain actions and even when something hurts me I rarely confront the person directly. Instead I carry the conflict silently within myself.

What I cannot stand are people who lack the courage to face things honestly and clearly choosing instead vague hints and contradictory behavior that leave others trapped in confusion and doubt. If someone constantly changes the way they treat others according to their mood swings then it is better for them to keep their distance. I am not free from suffering myself and perhaps I struggle as much as anyone else but I choose to carry my problems quietly without turning them into a burden for others.

If you hate someone, don't contact them or talk about them behind their back.If you love someone, go and tell them directly. If you're too weak to admit it, quietly withdraw without giving subtle hints that might confuse the other person. If you want to be friends with someone, take the initiative. And if you have a problem with someone, resolve it directly between you.

Life is too short to spend it blaming others,

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u/Individual_Kiwi_7715 — 4 days ago

Graduation and the dream of liberation

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Ana 3arfa we9et we ghadouz,3afakoum ghir de3iw m3aya yarbi yeser li bchi no9ta zewina...

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u/Individual_Kiwi_7715 — 10 days ago

I know life isn't easy, and I didn't expect mine to be an exception, but every day I become more certain that I can't deal with people. I don't know if I'm just too sensitive or if I expect everyone to be good and treat me the way I treat them.

I'm not here looking for any solutions; I just want to talk and talk about everything. I want to be able to get what's in my heart out. I cry every night alone and in silence. I always thank God for my life, no matter the circumstances or problems. Everything becomes a memory, but my heart grows heavier with each passing moment.

Every day I should be with my friends and family... but all I really want is to close my bedroom door and not leave it, maybe for a year at most I just want to sit and look out the window in silence and peace. The noise bothers me, and the voices of people almost suffocate me.

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u/Individual_Kiwi_7715 — 20 days ago

I feel like I’m not really living in the present

my mind keeps going back to the past and all its regrets or drifting into the future and its worries

days feel heavy and my thoughts take over even the small moments that could have been peaceful

it’s like waiting for a sunrise that never comes

between overthinking and feeling tired all the time and not knowing what’s coming next

I feel like I’m slowly losing myself ,life keeps moving fast and I can’t stop it or catch up with it ,I didn’t really live the past

I’m not fully here in the present

and the future doesn’t feel hopeful either

【If you've been in my situation before, tell me how you overcame it】

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u/Individual_Kiwi_7715 — 23 days ago

Gone not lost,If you know me personally, you'll know I write this phrase so often it's in the bio of all my accounts but the strange thing is, if you ask me what I mean, I'll tell you I don't know when I first read this phrase, it felt like a slap in the face ,I know I've lost something, and I know it hasn't been taken from me, nor is it still around, but it no longer belongs to me. Is it myself? I don't know ,I've always felt like I'm not the person I used to be Is it because of someone? I don't know that either.

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u/Individual_Kiwi_7715 — 23 days ago