I(19M) am currently in a relationship with my partner(19NB). Recently, my ex gf(21F) returned from a Mormon mission. We dated before her mission, and broke up over emails while she was on her mission. This happened over a year ago, and while I have moved on by now, because our families still keep in touch, I know that it would probably be the courteous thing to do to meet to give her some closure about the relationship. This is also something that my mom is hinting that I should do, and I know from past dating experience that giving closure can be a courteous thing. (As someone who got closure after the relationship ended)
However, my partner feels like since it’s been a long time, if my ex wants closure, she should reach out to me to ask to meet. I would only be meeting with her as a courtesy to her, which to my partner feels like unnecessarily anticipating my ex’s feelings when it has already been over a year since we’ve stopped contact.
I know that my partner doesn’t like that an ex or any of her family is still a part of my life in any way, which I totally understand. However, since our families are still in contact, I feel like giving closure and a better explanation than what was said over email a year ago would be the polite thing to do.
WIBTA if I met with her to talk one last time?