Met a guy from bumble irl and idk if he is looking for a relationship or not
We had been texting back and forth for a week before meeting. At one point, he asked me if we were heading toward a committed, serious relationship, and I said yes because I don't do casual relationships. He agreed, but I noticed that his profile said "looking for casual," which immediately made me skeptical.
When we finally met, most of our conversations were flirty. We'd gotten really comfortable with each other over text, and after a while we even started talking about physical intimacy. That's when I asked him why he had "looking for casual" on his profile.
He replied that he had no intention of getting married and couldn't offer that kind of commitment to anyone. I told him that was fair because I wasn't thinking about marriage or anything long-term at the moment either. Later, however, I made it clear that I was looking for a boyfriend and that I genuinely wanted to date and get to know him. He said he'd like that too.
The problem is that I'm worried he only said that because he wanted to be physically intimate with me. He keeps suggesting that we meet at his flat or mine, but he never suggests going on an actual date outside.
So now I'm confused and not sure whether he's genuinely interested in getting to know me and pursuing a relationship, or if he's simply telling me what I want to hear because he's interested in the physical aspect. I'm not sure if he's actually interested in me or not, and I don't know how to bring this up or confront him about it.