u/Inevitable_Task4483

The white and the woc femcels are pretty too. Genuinely how do y’all end up in here? Especially if you’re young (under 24).

I don’t but I need to. I used to work out in my bedroom but I stopped when I became ill a few months ago. I wasn’t doing it to look better. I was doing it because I’m super out of shape. I want to have muscles and a nice stomach so bad.

I’m so jealous of women with abs and petite, toned bodies. It’s easier to fix your body than your face imo. I’m also lazy and I couldn’t stand how nothing seemed to be changing on my body. Worse it seemed like just my arms and my back were getting bigger. I want to lift my saggy butt and saggy breasts 💔.

Being in shape would make me feel so much better about my unfortunate life (permanently single).

I don’t take good care of my body. I finally got to go to the doctor recently, and I was diagnosed with so many things at my old age (25 for reference). I’m pre diabetic (on the cusp of type 2 diabetes), have a Vitamin D deficiency, and have anemia. I barely go outside or eat.

The reason I don’t go out much is because I’m unattractive. I think I used to have agoraphobia. Several years back I had a mental breakdown and I had to drop out of high school my graduating year. I ended up not leaving my house or even my bedroom for about 3 years. The pandemic happened, and when I wore a mask, people treated me a lot better.

Another reason I don’t go out much is because I don’t have friends or a means of transportation. I’m a NEET in every single way. There was a period in my life a couple of months ago where I used to go for a walk around my neighborhood. I still had anxiety around (almost always white) men being disgusted by my presence, so I would wear sunglasses to cover my eyes, headphones to cover my ears, and a jacket to cover my flat body. I stopped working out because I had got sick because of a male unfortunately. I’ve been trying to get back into it, but can never find the motivation. I’m hoping to eventually start going for hourly walks and doing my daily exercise.

Recently, I’ve made a change to my skincare for my face. I think my skin looks and feels SO much better now. I’m still below average, but I keep staring at my face and touching it because I like the smoothness of it. I feel like people look down on ugly women that do self care. My sister told me I looked like I had sucked a chicken bone because I’ve been using a moisturizer (Aquaphor) on my lips. I wasn’t wearing it to be attractive lol. I wanted to tame my dry skin. Same with facial and body moisturizers.

Have any of you ever neglected your body and your face because people would shame you for it or you felt like it was pointless? I used to wear makeup, do my edges and my nails, etc., but in the end, no man was ever interested.

On a brutal side note, my mom doesn’t take care of her skin nor does she (well now she does) wear makeup. Men still approached her for relationships, and women would always approach her for advice on hair, skin, and makeup LOL.

I have met a lot of attractive black women that would be so confused by black femcels. They’ve never had to deal with the black girl tax. They can date race of men they want, and non-black people have no problem treating them like human beings.

Another maybe controversial opinion is that plus-sized women can be Stacies. They are by far the meanest demographic on the entire planet. I have been bullied the most by obese women my entire life. There are way more men attracted to chubby women than skinny women. Absolutely no man would ever choose a stick over a curvy girl.

-a flat and black femcel

I don’t want to date a pedophile or a man that thinks lolicon/shotacon is okay. I don’t want to date a racist or a man that uses any type of slurs (racial, gender, or sexuality-based). I don’t want to date a man that is just going to cheat on me with other women. I just don’t see the point. I don’t want to date a men with multiple baby mamas and children that he neglects. I don’t want to date a man who will put his hands on me or sexually assault me. I don’t want to date a guy who is pushy about sex and will try to force me to do sexual things I don’t want to try like anal or most kinks. I don’t want to date a man that watches porn 24/7 or talks about gooning. I don’t want to date a man that follows a bunch of OF girls on any social platform. I also don’t want to date a man that someway somehow is “friends” with every single attractive woman in his vicinity. I don’t want to be in a poly relationship or an open relationship. I don’t want to be with a man that doesn’t want to spend time with me unless sex is on the table.

My standards are too much. I can’t compete with the average woman. They are willing to suck and fuck on the first date. I remember watching a TikTok of this pretty white woman, and she ate a man’s ass on the first date. He had hemorrhoids, and one of them burst in her mouth. Men can reasonably expect this from women they barely know without any effort nowadays.

I turned 25 a few days ago, and my age is really starting to kick in :|. Life has never gotten any more meaningful for me.