i’m partner A and no i do not have his birth time. pls be brutally honest about the good AND bad. we are going through a rough patch right now. does free will override the transits or are we all victims of it?
Hi yall basically for context, i’m on probation (year sentence) for a misdemeanor and dropped felony. In the beginning of my probation period my officer told me “i’d have to test you at some point” i’m about 5-6 months in and she still hasn’t tested me. all my meetings with her last about 5 minutes just to see how i’m doing. very light work easy stuff. the part where you all facepalm is that i give myself a 2-3 week buffer before my meetings to stop smoking weed. (i drug test at home and so far have been negative) I stopped smoking august 9th and my probation appointment is on august 27th. most likely she won’t drug test me but the part where i’m fucking nervous is that i tested positive at home for THC just now. any encouraging words?
I’m reporting sexual assault to the police. My rapist used to be my friend (known him since i was 14). I haven’t even reported him yet but my mind is already at endgame where I’m in court testifying against him. Please tell me any success stories you have to ease my mind. EDIT: I am located in the U.S. so if anyone has success stories here pls lmk.
For context, we met when we were both 22 and immediately created the strongest soul tie on the FIRST link lol, (he got me pregnant on the first link which is crazy) 3 years later we are both 25. For more info, BOTH of us are not interested in each other romantically at all. We’re both avoidants since we have copious amounts of shared trauma from past relationships/people in our lives. I am perfectly happy never being in a formal relationship with this man and i know the feeling is mutual for him. So it seems like we both hit the jackpot in that aspect? Even so I’ve come to him with my boy problems as well. and he tells me casually “oh i hooked up with this girl” and there’s no jealousy whatsoever. (which is great) the problem tho is the friendship part— we’ve both come to a conclusion that we’re two different people. I’m passionate in all aspects in love and in hate. He’s nonchalant. There were sooo many times i’ve crashed out on him and called him a fair weathered friend, like verbally assassinating this man and then he doesn’t even yell back at me. He’s just like “Bro what is wrong” and then we have a phone call, then we talk things out calmly, and then after things are resolved we have mind blowing amazing sex. When we were talking on the phone after me crashing out and things have settled, he was like “yea our sex is like making love” i then said “what?” pretending not to hear it and he was like “nothing.” I know we BOTH have things to work on but what do I do? should i just crash out less and communicate calmly? I only get this way cuz i’m only frustrated with him not showing up (showing up as in “be there for me in a time of need”) in a way that platonic friends do. He’s like I’m always there for your grievances but i don’t allow you to be there for mine because whenever you’re mad you just use it against me. but i’m like, is it not a two way street? i feel like he was less nonchalant I wouldn’t crash out as much towards him. idk what to do.