How do I handle a customer with unrealistic time expectations without losing them?
I work as a CSM at a SaaS tech company and have about 40 customers ranging from high touch to low touch, meeting anywhere from monthly to quarterly. We stay in touch around news, goal setting, new features, regulatory updates and general questions. Things are going well with nearly all of them.
One customer keeps inviting me to up to 2 internal meetings per week, each up to an hour long, with no set agenda. Their reasoning is so they can get answers immediately without following up. Unlike every other customer, they refuse to handle technical issues within their own IT team and want me present for every conversation. My department standard is monthly meetings and my manager has explicitly advised me not to get pulled into this pattern.
The previous CSM on this account never set boundaries and regularly went above and beyond our agreement. When I tried to limit meetings to our monthly cadence and asked for agendas when additional meetings are requested, the customer got upset, said their previous CSM was more available and threatened to find another vendor.
I am relatively new to customer success, not new to working with customers, but this situation has been genuinely tough. How would you handle this?