My 19 year old brother started living with me and my husband.
I am the oldest of three children 28(f). My younger sibling who is 19(m) started living with me and my spouse a week ago. He is not a troubled young man. He has a full time job. My parents are both toxic and emotionally unstable so I understand why he asked me to move in. I said yes. I do not know how long he plans on being there. He has his own room and bathroom. I did not ask him to contribute to anything because I do not know what his plan is. I have just decided to give him space and time to think as I know my parents are A LOT and he is probably filled with anxiety because I was him once. I take pride in keeping my space clean. I have noticed that he is not the tidiest. He has not taken out his trash, he leaves his stuff around and my biggest pet peeve walks around the house with outside shoes. I do not want to sound like I am being an asshole but how do I mention these things? I feel like its so early-on but idk.