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12dpo - I know it’s not over til AF shows but after the last few days of obsessing over gaslighting indents, being glued to my phone researching various things that mean it might be positive, spending too much on tests and too much time and energy away from my real life gorgeous family I’m making some adjustments to my approach. No more early testing, no multiple tests a day, no relentless zooming in to try and see things that aren there. Try and shake plans of when I ‘need’ this to happen.
When it happens I’ll know.
Until then I’m focussing on the other stuff and there’s so much great other stuff.
🧡

Yes yes it’s 6dpo and too early for much of anything. however I’m now having a very weird visual migraine, something which I’ve associated with pregnancy before so of course I’m now convinced…
Bring on Thursday/ my period already so I can stop hoping….
Thanksssss

Any strategies to avoid starting repeated obsessive testing from 7dpo welcome. I’m going to get partner to hide the tests to start with, now it’s just dealing with my total lack of self control and wanting to test.

Hello!
So as above - this month (4th cycle trying) I am ovulating day 11.
The previous month day 14, one before that 11 and one before that was delayed at day 16 after chemical pregnancy.
For context I am 40 with two children no known fertility issues.

Just wondered about other people’s experiences with early ovulation. I am reading anything from CD 11 is fine I’m just wondered if things are taking longer this time for a specific reason aside from - it just takes that long sometimes and is normal.

Thanks!

So..Decided we don’t want the fuss and the idea of a looooong day with wedding, then wedding breakfast, then evening and more food sounds EXHAUSTING. And expensive (and we want a new kitchen).
We want to go to the registry office in Liverpool with 25 family members, then onto a restaurant.
Has anyone not mentioned ‘wedding’ to a restaurant before in order to avoid getting fleeced?
Looking for food recommendations ideally walking Distance but we can always hire a coach needs be if going further. To note half of us are African/ Zimbabwean so fish and chips mightn’t cut it 🙂
Thanks