u/Inside-Umpire2755

27M and 25F. Ok so for context we've been dating for 2 years and we're long distance. So my boyfriend has to make a trip to another city. He's known about this trip for sometime now. I would say about 4 months. He's going on this trip for work job and I've asked him multiple times if I can join and if I can go.
He would basically brush me off every time and say
"let's take it one step at a time!" Anyways fast forwarded to now his dad books the ticket and the hotel for him and he goes on his trip. He FaceTimes me when he's there and the hotel room has 2 beds. He tells me that his buddies brought their gf with them. I find that weird because it's just a room for him. It's just been erking me why are their 2 beds? He's been out all day with his new work friends to watch a game with these new friend he made that day on the job. Anyways he got home late and didn't call me.
It's just very suspicious. Even if you put my suspicion aside, even if he isn't doing anything, I'm still really hurt that he didn't invite me to come and kept brushing me off. Online we're great and he calls me regularly, but he's very weird with in person visiting and only considers it when I'm the one crying or threatening to break off the relationship.
It's just if your long distance, wouldn't you jump at the opportunity to see your partner if you could?