u/Intelligent-Cod-5395

Started cutting a couple months ago but thankfully didn't go deeper than catscratches so they didn't scar that much, the scars on my thighs are barely visible so I don't think I have anything to worry about.

I just want to sh so bad but I can't find a place to do it that isn't visible, I didn't do my arms for obvious reasons so I went for my thighs, now I realized that if I have sex with a girl she'll one hundred percent see them and I'm at that age where it'll probably happen.

I don't know if I should go for the calf or something because I really can't find a solution to this, the urge is always there

I know I'm probably overreacting and this story is weird, but please, please don't judge me I just want to understand.

Basically back when I was in kindergarten I have this vague memory of going to the bathroom and then being followed by a female teacher.

She said that I wasn't going to actually use the bathroom, but to waste time and leave the classroom for the sake of it.

She was shouting and she was fuming and I was like 5 or 6 so I got really scared and I started crying and I kept swearing that I was actually here to use the bathroom.

She kept fuming and told me not to swear to God on a lie and that she "knew" the truth.

Then she demanded to see me do it in order to "prove" that I wasn't lying.

I didn't want this but then again I was 5 and she was shouting and I was scared.

She ended up watching me take my pants off and pee and then left.

After that she went to my classroom and told the teacher that I was going to the bathroom and not actually using it and she got me in trouble.

I'm a boy if this makes anything different or something.

I know I'm probably overreacting and I'm not saying this to nice or performative, if I'm overreacting then I'm sorry, just don't judge me please.

Basically there's been this trend going on where incels have been shaming women who have hip dips as a means to combat woman having height preferences, (hips dips are normal and just anatomy).

In essence it's just incel slop spreading hatred and bitterness, now in my part I basically thought that this whole thing was harmless and was just ignored, until I saw one of those guys bring up a chart of new trending search terms on Google and guess what it was "how to fix hip dips"

That asshole was happy because he managed to make so many girls insecure about normal anatomy to the point where they had to search up how to fix it, he's happy that he caused pain to others for no reason, he creates a problem and becomes happy when it causes suffering.

I wanted to make this post to make something very clear, hip dips are a normal part of anatomy and almost all women have them, they are not a form of bone recession or a disease, they are normal and you shouldn't worry about them at all, it just made me upset seeing that there were girls out there who actually searched up "how to fix hip dips" all because of these assholes.

This whole thing has been growing, and I know it has made a lot of girls insecure, so please watch out.

(Hip dips are the natural inward curves located on the sides of your body, between your pelvic bone and your thigh bone)

I've seen a lot of videos on TikTok of gymbros just putting on a tight black t-shirt and grey sweatpants and of course they're thirst traps like it's obvious, however my question is and I want girls to answer this (preferably my age (16)),

Are they really that liked by you guys? Like I understand a good black t-shirt shows off your frame and like stuff like that, but the comments I see on those videos are explicit and almost a bit too much, is that just TikTok noise and random hype or do you guys actually find those types of outfits attractive?

The research I've done tells me that those reactions might be due to those shirts showing a v shaped upper body, you know wide shoulders and stuff like that, and biceps and veiny forearms, but then again that's just random women saying stuff, I wanna understand if you guys are actually attracted to stuff like this for real, I know this whole post is weird and strange, but I wanna know 🙏