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I’m posting because I honestly don’t know what to think anymore, and I’m hoping to hear from people who have experienced something similar. My boyfriend and I were very sexually active during the first months of our relationship. We had a really good sex life. Then, pretty abruptly, things changed.
He stopped wanting to have sex. He doesn’t really want me to touch him sexually, and when I try to seduce him, he doesn’t seem to get turned on. Most of the time, I’m the one initiating, and I’m often rejected.
He told me that he was sexually har*ssed when he was a child. Because of that, he said he doesn’t necessarily associate sex with love, and sexual intimacy can be difficult for him. I accepted that. I don't want him to feel pressured to have sex with me, and I understand that what happened to him wasn't his fault.
But recently, I caught him masturbating in the bathroom while watching porn. The person he was watching was a stranger/guy, and he was clearly turned on by it. I asked him whether this could mean that he is more sexually attracted to strangers than to me. He told me that there is a possibility that he might actually be more turned on by the idea of having sex with a stranger than having sex with someone he loves.
That really hurt me.
I’m a very monogamous person, and for me, sexual intimacy is strongly connected to romantic love. So I’m struggling with the fact that my boyfriend doesn't seem to get turned on when I touch or seduce him, but he can become aroused by someone he doesn't know.
At the same time, I don't want to reduce everything to “he doesn't find me attractive.” I know childhood sexual trauma can affect someone's relationship with sex, intimacy, and arousal. Maybe being intimate with someone he loves feels completely different from fantasy or anonymous sex. Maybe the emotional closeness itself makes sex difficult for him.
But I’m still hurt.
I don't want anyone to tell me to simply leave him or simply accept everything because of his trauma. I’m really trying to understand what might be happening first. I love him, but I’m starting to feel undesirable and insecure, and I don't know if I'm being unfair for feeling this way.
If anyone has experienced something similar—either as the partner with sexual trauma or as the partner of someone with it—I would really appreciate hearing your experiences and advice.
I mostly just want to know that I'm not alone in feeling this way.
hello, currently mag 4th year na ako sa college and as much as i want to apply for LOA parang di kaya dahil sa pressure. Medyo mahal mag thesis sa amin kaya gusto ko n sana simulan mag ipon. Im from Metro Manila, near Katipunan, 21 years old, male. Versatile ako pagdating sa mga creative work i can do writing, editing simple photos or videos or even sound, i can also do voice acting or hosting. just lmk please!
also, baka may advice kayo since im planning to work at night, like barista or kung ano man kung where to work? thank you so much
hello, currently mag 4th year na ako sa college and as much as i want to apply for LOA parang di kaya dahil sa pressure. Medyo mahal mag thesis sa amin kaya gusto ko n sana simulan mag ipon. Im from Metro Manila, near Katipunan, 21 years old, male. Versatile ako pagdating sa mga creative work i can do writing, editing simple photos or videos or even sound, i can also do voice acting or hosting. just lmk please!
also, baka may advice kayo since im planning to work at night, like barista or kung ano man kung where to work? thank you so much