u/IntelligentLie6520

I tried asking people in comments and DMs, but many either ignored the question or confused me with multiple opinions. (I don’t blame them.<3)

I dropped twice for NEET, but it didn’t work out.

Because of that, I’ve decided not to go for another drop or a partial drop and instead change my stream.

I’ll be attending a state government BCom college in the coming weeks. My question is: what should I choose or aim for from here?

I have a 9/7 academic profile and a two-year gap. I’m female and have an OBC reservation, if that helps in any way.

I know all these exams are difficult, and my goals may seem far-fetched. I’m just very confused right now and don’t know how to proceed.

10th: 90% (2022) (I don't remember the decimal part) 12th: 72.8% (2024)

I dropped twice for neet, and after assessing my situation on paper I wonder if i could any government college.

I don't want to get stuck in this loop of taking drops hence, I finally decided to do something else

My parents agreed to get my admission done in some private University. Now the problem is I don't know what course i should study.

BCA? BCOM? BBA? Biotechnology? Bioinformatics? Or something specific? Like zoology, botany or chemistry? (I like maths, so something is math heavy isn't a problem for me.)

I'm planning to appear for CAT later. What course should I go with so it benefits me in the future along with the MBA thing?

~Thank you. {And sorry if I made any grammatical errors}

My qualifications:

10th: 90% (2022) (I don't remember the decimal part) 12th: 72.8% (PCB) (2024)

I dropped twice for neet, and after assessing my situation on paper I wonder if i could any government college.

I don't want to get stuck in this loop of taking drops hence, I finally decided to do something else.

My parents agreed to get my admission done in some private University. Now the problem is I don't know what course i should study.

BCA? BCOM? BBA? Biotechnology? Bioinformatics? Or something specific? Like zoology, botany or chemistry?

(I like maths, so if something is math heavy isn't a problem for me.)

I'm planning to appear for CAT later. What course should I go with so it benefits me in the future along with the MBA thing?

~Thank you. {And sorry if I made any grammatical errors}

I 19F, have a younger sister who's 17...will turn 18 in few months. She found an "online boyfriend" through Snapchat 10-11 months back. The problem isn't the boyfriend or anything like that. I'm a neet dropper, and i can clearly see the same patterns she is repeating (not that I ever had any relationship lol 😛) . Postponing her work, not taking actions on right time, etc. because of this and other distractions on her phone she messed up her 12th boards. But by god's grace she somehow managed to score enough to sit for any national exams.

Now I don't know if i should tell this to my mother.

{My mother: she's wise and calm, unless provoked, lol. Once i confessed about my first and last crush in eighth grade, she didn't shout or shame she listened and guided me to focus on myself and my future.)

It's not like i never tried to help her moderate her phone usage, or kept reminding her. I even tried to make an online study group for three of us. Me, her and her boyfriend. So that we'd all could study. But none of them showed any interest.

I just don't want her to repeat the same mistake i did, especially since she will be appearing for CLAT this year. And not to mention she's ambiguous about her affairs and we always have fight over her phone, cause she's possessive as hell.

What should I do? Tell our mom or keep my mouth shut?

TLDR: I’ve already tried helping my sister...asking her to reduce phone usage, reminding her constantly, and even setting up an online study group with me, her, and her boyfriend so we’d all study. No one cared. On top of that, my sister is extremely possessive about her phone, vague about her relationship, and we fight constantly over it.