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I’m having problems with my boyfriend because lately my sexual drive has been so sooo low.
I don’t want to do it because of him getting upset or feeling obligated like I have the obligation to do it bc I’m his girlfriend. I’m so confused about what is happening. It usually happens that at the begging I’m hyper sexual and then it just feels “meh”. Like I don’t even want it or think about it… like i feel lazy about it. Also, I’m again going to church and it’s giving me sex guilt. What do I do? What is happening? :(

Hi, hope u are doing well. I’m struggling with the part of intimate relations. I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 1 ayer. At first I was hyper sexual but then when I went again to the church, and had been going, I have felt so guilty in having or thinking about it. I don’t even have the drive anymore. I feel bad and disgusting during and after. I know it wrong to have it before marriage but i just don’t know how to commit to it. I also have the fear to be judge by him, or to left him or of him doing it. I have even question if it love? I’m so confused. Is being hard for me to have discernment. Also, I’m 29 years old. What can I do? What do I do? What is happening to me? I’m so confused and it’s terrifying. I will appreciate any advice w kindness 🫶🏻

Hi, hope u are well. My dad just recently has been diagnosed with rectal cancer. He will begin his radio therapies with quimio medications next week.How can I help him? What do I do to support him? What can I do? I will apréciate any advice. Also, how do I deal with these new changes in our lives? Thank you in advance 🙏🏻

Hi, hope u are well. My dad just recently has been diagnosed with rectal cancer. He will begin his radio therapies with quimio medications next week.How can I help him? What do I do to support him? What can I do? I will apréciate any advice. Also, how do I deal with these new changes in our lives? Thank you in advance 🙏🏻