u/Internal_Control_618

Should I cut them off?

Hello everyone. I'm 15F and just finished my freshmen year of high school. For some context I still keep in touch with most of my middle school friends and I transferred schools mid-year this year.

Starting off with my middle school friends, everyone had went radio silent on me. They all still talk in a groupchat only im excluded from (they told me that btw). And they hang out regularly, ditching me when I try to make plans. They honestly had a lot of red flags during our friendship like hanging out with people who were bullying me and clearly taking a toll on my mental health, as well as isolating me all school year and then telling me I'm dramatic for being alone all the time. But I still try and keep in touch since we didn't really "end on a bad note". I have other friends from like early middle school but they said they wont talk to me unless I talk to them through first discord then Instagram (they switched that up fast because we always used to text on whatsapp).

Then my high school friends from before the transfer. They were a little weird towards me but talked to me a lot. We all had 2-3 classes together so we kinda hung out a lot. But after I transferred they also went radio silent. Id text to have a conversation or ask to hangout and they would always be "busy" or just flat out ignore me. But then I open Instagram and their all hanging out and posting.

I haven't really made any friends after transferring since everyone was clicked in when I transferred in January. But this one girl asked for my Instagram and said I was quiet and I should talk to people more. This interaction happened in June. Now we are taking college courses and she is recording me during class with her friends and talking about me to them, trying to "whisper" when I can literally hear what they are saying.

Its hard for me to make friends honestly. Every friend has said I looked mean at first, and sometimes I can't help but wondering if im scaring these people, they are always avoiding me but i know theres nothing wrong with me...

But should I cut them off or does someone have another solution.

For some context, im 15 and im severely overweight. I'm genuinely trying to work on myself and lose weight but im honestly on my own in this journey. My mother 48F is constantly digging at me for my weight when she knows i am trying to get it down. We had a conversation with a caseworker about a year ago, and from that day on she said "I won't say nothing else to her about it because when she's bedridden and dying that's between her and her father" (not to me directly, my sister told be this). After that she stopped talking to me directly about it and has constantly been talking shit behind my back. Anytime I share with her that I'm losing some weight she just honestly has nothing nice to say about it or doesnt acknowledge me at all. As of lately she's been getting way too comfortable and saying my clothing size isn't in stores (I'm a whole size down btw, 2xl), and saying genuinely fucked up shit, for example earlier, im walking my nephew home from school and I tell her "its so hot I'm dying" its 94 degrees, and she says "oh your tired from walking, you need to put that walk pad to use". What she says really messes with my head and when I bring it up to siblings they say oh well or thug it out till you move out. But im here genuinely wondering if im wrong for despising her?

Hello, I am looking to apply to UA Albany in the near future and I have a couple questions.

1. Is credit transfer complicated/complex? Im in and early college high school and will graduate with 60 credits

2. What is party life like?

3. With housing, is there a way I can find roommates to live off campus?

4. What is it like to make friends on campus whether it be in class or in clubs

5. What is the cost for a Sorority

Hello I was wondering if someone could give me a chocolate easter egg fruit and one more fruit so I can complete the candy blossom.