My 3rd disclosure ever, first time someone told me they don’t won’t to move forward with me at least sexually.
So I (m26) had to do my 3rd disclosure ever. The first two were fine and we continued to have protected sex after this is the first one where someone showed a bit of hesitancy on moving forward nothing too crazy tho. I’d say this one was halfway successful. The girl still likes me and wants a relationship with me but she did say she’s afraid of having sex and eventually trying for kids if she wants them. Currently she has stated that she doesn’t want to have sex and we’re pretty much gonna have to take care of our sexual needs by masturbating, and things that are contactless. This makes me nervous because we’re both attracted to eachother with high sex drives and i feel like she’s going to eventually get frustrated with the fact that our sex ljves is limited to contactless acts. Who knows maybe she’ll eventually feel more comfortable/open to doing stuff with protection or maybe this will be more fun than i imagine.
I really would like to find my person but it’s really hard. I just wanted to know what’s your experiences with dating someone who’s reluctant to having sex with contact. How’d it go were you frustrated were they frustrated. I really like this girl and i want things to work out but honestly im not optimistic and hearing your stories as hypotheticals would help me determine what i COULD experience. Thank you all good luck on your journey 👍🏾✊🏾